Colleague dating etiquette

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transferpricingCFA's picture

Cheers guys..

Nice dialogue Brain, but really it wasnt like that.

She is going away on fri and gets back sat evening, so it was discussed to catch up then, but she may be really tired, however she was saying the best cure would be for her to party on!

Anyway, Ill contact her today ask how shes doing and if shes still up for it.

I guess insecurity is just cos you know waht females are like. They can just all of a sudden turn.

brain_wash_your_face's picture

My gf’s friend asked her about how you play hard to get on a online dating forum.  I was like, “Wow, women really are cray.”  I mean, if I was using online dating and somebody played “hard to get” I would definitely just move on to the next.  You play hard to get at work, at bars, at a party, whatever as long as it is just a standard social interaction.  If you are doing a formalized dating thing, like speed dating or online dating, then playing hard to get is pointless because the guy will just move on to the next random person.  God, that should really be obvious.

“Some people make shoes. Some people make houses. We make money and people are willing pay us a lot to make money for them.”

FrankArabia's picture

good luck bud….

CFAvsMBA's picture

transferpricingCFA wrote:

Cheers guys..

Nice dialogue Brain, but really it wasnt like that.

She is going away on fri and gets back sat evening, so it was discussed to catch up then, but she may be really tired, however she was saying the best cure would be for her to party on!

Anyway, Ill contact her today ask how shes doing and if shes still up for it.

I guess insecurity is just cos you know waht females are like. They can just all of a sudden turn.

My nigga

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brain_wash_your_face wrote:

My gf’s friend asked her about how you play hard to get on a online dating forum.  I was like, “Wow, women really are cray.”  I mean, if I was using online dating and somebody played “hard to get” I would definitely just move on to the next.  You play hard to get at work, at bars, at a party, whatever as long as it is just a standard social interaction.  If you are doing a formalized dating thing, like speed dating or online dating, then playing hard to get is pointless because the guy will just move on to the next random person.  God, that should really be obvious.

This. If it’s not her, it will be another woman. Her loss for being a moron.

“I lost my wife to a margin call. Wives get mad when you come home and say, ‘Sweetheart, I lost the house today.’” - Dennis Gartman on trading mistakes

FrankArabia's picture

a girl once told me “i play hard to get”….and i reply, “I don’t” and never talked to her again……problably a bad move on my behalf cause she was pretty classy…..

transferpricingCFA's picture

OMG, i texted her and its been over an hour now and no reply!!!

Black Swan's picture

Not going for the bait…

I used to smoke pot and go to class.  

Sneak in ten minutes late with a bullsh*t excuse.  

Slink down low at my desk.  

Pray to god nobody asked me any questions.

I was the best teacher ever.

transferpricingCFA's picture

Honestly, what the hell is with girls. It was honestly an awesome date, and its been nearly 3 hours and still no reply to my text.

Ive really had it.

ohai's picture

Wait, are you serious or joking? It’s getting a bit hard to tell. 

“I’m a CPA! I got money b***h!”

transferpricingCFA's picture

Im actually serious now.

It was honestly a really really good second date. I mean we spent like 5 or 6 hours together, talking no akwardness, and then kissing and feeling a bit etc. She even asked if she would see me again.

So I really just dont get it at all.

Black Swan's picture

Do not text again today man.  I have a strict 1.5 initiations of contact per response rule during the early stages.

I used to smoke pot and go to class.  

Sneak in ten minutes late with a bullsh*t excuse.  

Slink down low at my desk.  

Pray to god nobody asked me any questions.

I was the best teacher ever.

transferpricingCFA's picture

No I certainly wont if she doenst reply

Alucard's picture

I think this guy is trolling us

FrankArabia's picture

if this guy is for real…..i bet he texts again…..i bet he does…..

i use to do this too with girls…..it comes from insecurity….afraid that the girl doens’t like us……you just have to learn to get over it….

transferpricingCFA's picture

no, i wont text again.

But I may email her tomorrow at work and ask why she didnt respond. I mean if it wasnt the greatest of dates I could understand and would leave it.

But maybe theres a good excuse and ill hear from her soon enough

BValGuy's picture

transferpricingCFA wrote:

no, i wont text again.

But I may email her tomorrow at work and ask why she didnt respond.

You really know how to get the ladies interested and excited.

FrankArabia's picture

you need to understand this…..if she doesn’t text/email you back, she doesn’t really want anything. she may have been on the date just cause she had nothing better to do. i have done that and i’m sure many on here do as well. 

you think if floyd mayweather texted her she won’t text back? 

we’re done here. 

bchad's picture

bchadwick wrote:

OK, it looks like I was wrong here.  Who knows, maybe chicks are moody sometimes.  ;-)

^ what he said. 

You want a quote?  Haven’t I written enough already???

ohai's picture

You should get really drunk and send her a long rambling email. That usually works. I will be happy to write this email for you, as I am a master writer. 

“I’m a CPA! I got money b***h!”

transferpricingCFA's picture

lol.

yeh, but it wouldnt add up because:

1) the date went from 7pm to 1am, she wouldve made an excuse to go earlier if she didnt like it

2) we kissed and bit of touching for an hour or so at the end of the dat eon a couch at the bar

3) she even asked if she would see me again.

If it was a mediocre date, I would understnad and not have posted all about this..

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Then what are you freaking out about? Maybe she has a life and isn’t glued to her phone 24/7. That might be a good thing.

“I lost my wife to a margin call. Wives get mad when you come home and say, ‘Sweetheart, I lost the house today.’” - Dennis Gartman on trading mistakes

higgmond's picture

^ this.  CFAvsMBA probably just finished with her and she can’t walk over to her phone to check her texts.

You can fondle the cube, but it will not respond.

transferpricingCFA's picture

^ Bromion is right, or she is playing games.

As she just texted. saying its on for the weekend for us.

Gonna tap that!

CFAvsMBA's picture

^hahaha! 

former trader's picture

bromion wrote:

Then what are you freaking out about? Maybe she has a life and isn’t glued to her phone 24/7. That might be a good thing.

Women are married to their phone.  I highly doubt she (or any other woman for that matter) isn’t glued to her Iphone.

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former trader wrote:

bromion wrote:

Then what are you freaking out about? Maybe she has a life and isn’t glued to her phone 24/7. That might be a good thing.

Women are married to their phone.  I highly doubt she (or any other woman for that matter) isn’t glued to her Iphone.

Don’t generalize. I am a woman and I am not glued to my phone. I also never play hard to get. I don’t play with emotions, either you like the guy and marry him (which i did ) or move on.

ohai's picture

She probably used some of those 3 hours to discuss with her BFFs. Chances are she is equally excited to be dating transfer and wants to tell everyone. That or she is concerned that transfer is a serial killer… I mean, the evidence seems to support this theory: the obsessive behavior… the high number of girls dated for short periods, after which we never hear about them again… the fact that many of the girls were from far away places, making their connection to transfer hard to trace… 

I… I have said too much…

“I’m a CPA! I got money b***h!”

CFAvsMBA's picture

I believe in Keyser Soze, and the only thing that scares me is TPCFA.

Black Swan's picture

sherbeer wrote:

Don’t generalize. I am a woman and I am not glued to my phone. I also never play hard to get. I don’t play with emotions, either you like the guy and marry him (which i did ) or move on.

-posted from myiPhone

FTFY

I used to smoke pot and go to class.  

Sneak in ten minutes late with a bullsh*t excuse.  

Slink down low at my desk.  

Pray to god nobody asked me any questions.

I was the best teacher ever.

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