anyways, im thinking of doing an exercise with my gf, where we write down our expectations of each other in seperate pieces of paper, and discussing what we wrote. we would then iron out a 1 page paper of what we agreed on. should i do this or is this stupid?
this will definitely lead to a fight, but hopefully we can negotiate some terms to make things smoother in a marriage or at least break up before a marriage. i know its not enforceable, but at least we can get something down on paper to verify whose integrity was compromised.
Good of you Nery to do emotional exercises with your significant other. I knew you were a mature, thoughtful and trustworthy individual when it came to relationships.
Shoulda got that insured, Geico for your money If you ain’t no punk Holla, “We want prenup! We want prenup!” (Yeah!) It’s somethin’ that you need to have ‘Cause when she leave yo’ ass, she gon’ leave with half
You can dictate absolute terms when you are going for someone low quality. If you have the choices, you have the leverage and you are not aiming high enough!
It doesn’t hurt to start talking about this sort of stuff with your girl if the relationship is getting more serious. Make sure its not near her time of the month though; shit can get out of hand really quick. If expectations don’t match up, you want to find out before you tie the knot - that’s for sure.
