bchad
February 12, 2014, 8:58pm
#341
One of my favorite bits of advice about “Where to meet women” is the following:
Pick up a magazine like Cosmo, Glamour, Redbook, or whatever similar magazine is read by your target demographic.
Every month or two, these magazines always run an article on “where to meet guys.” From there, it’s simple:
Read article.
Note where they tell women to go to find guys.
Go there.
Best yet, as fads change, so will the articles, but you’ll be up to date.
And while you’re perusing the mags at your local Barnes and Ignoble, you might as well chat up the girl standing next to you.
Seriously bruh. Apart from school and college the girl’s iv’e dated were both friends of my friends girlfriends. What are your options in the ‘real world’? It seems the best way to meet a girl who has her head screwed on is through social circles provided you aren’t a nutcase and you’re just increasing your chances if you have female friends.
Yea alarm bells would ring if any of my friends ever tried to set me up with someone, no quality girl worth her salt would agree to that. It’s just that you’re meeting way more women through their friend circles so at least you have options to do what you want.
If you haven’t been a dick about the split i see no reason why your female friend would give a damn or ignore you for that matter but i have zilch experience in that.
What if i am a nutcase?
Oh, side note, i finally see an attractive girl on the analystforum fb like spot in the lower column. Marina, if you are reading this…
whatsyourgovt:
Girls make more of an effort to destroy their bf’s friendships and isolate. Guys do not make an effort because their is no upside - you will not have relations with this other female and thus no point. Wait for it, wait for it, addressing the original question that guys and girls cannot co-exist with platonic relationships.
It depends if they are the jealous type.
Some girls do not like their boyfriends to hangout with female friends just like guys don’t like their girlfriends meet her male friends.
bchad:
Having women friends is good, but most times women have tried setting me up with their friends it hasn’t been so great. If you’re not attracted to their friend, then you often find yourself having to defend why. If you are hot for their friend but for whatever reason aren’t into having a relationship with them, you have to defend why you aren’t a jerk for trying to sleep with them. If you try a relationship, but it doesn’t work for whatever reason, you often end up losing both the GF and the friend, which can also suck.
Many times, one gets the feeling that you are the catch and your friend is actually trying to do a bigger favor to her friend than she is for you.
If a woman wants to set me up with one of her friends, I usually suggest doing something casual in a big group and just see if there is chemistry. Most of the time, there isn’t, or it feels very forced.
Agreed that bars are boring places to pick up women, but sometimes they are more exciting than match.com .
I get set up by my female friends too!
As well as male friends actually.
When you are single, you will always come across nosy people who just want to set you up!
no no, i meant their male friends.
igor555
February 12, 2014, 11:02pm
#346
bchad:
One of my favorite bits of advice about “Where to meet women” is the following:
Pick up a magazine like Cosmo, Glamour, Redbook, or whatever similar magazine is read by your target demographic.
Every month or two, these magazines always run an article on “where to meet guys.” From there, it’s simple:
Read article.
Note where they tell women to go to find guys.
Go there.
Best yet, as fads change, so will the articles, but you’ll be up to date.
And while you’re perusing the mags at your local Barnes and Ignoble, you might as well chat up the girl standing next to you.
whats the best pick up line…hi im bchad?
NANA_Hachiko:
Really? you think?
That may be true, but i do find that tendency.
Girls make more effort in breaking into their boyfriends’ group of friends.
Guys do not make that much effort to know their girlfriends’ friends, in fact, even if their girlfriends ask them to join, they would just sit there and not say a thing most of the time.
Like I said, must be an oriental thing.
This * 1000.
I went to my company’s Christmas party and had great chemistry with the daughter of a woman that works with me. I can tell she wanted me real bad (made every excuse to touch me on the arm, flirted, laughed at anything I said, and found me multiple times throughout the night to chat up more). I would love to bang her till the sun rises but she seems very close to her mom and I can’t think of a way to pull this without being seen as an a$$hole.
system
February 14, 2014, 5:16am
#349
Can “gays be just friends” or “lesbians be just friends”?
I don’t know i mean, it depends what the boyfriend does with his male friends i suppose??
I hope so!
i have gay and lesbian friends.
I mean, in this day and age, who knows if they are gay, bi, or anything in between anyway?? a person can be sexually attracted to the same sex but not emotionally, or the other way around.
Can Igor and Rahul Roy be friends?
system
April 21, 2014, 4:11pm
#355
I don’t remember this thread, So where do you meet women if not for social circles and bars?
system
April 21, 2014, 4:16pm
#357
^
I shall dress as the grim reaper and give it a shot.
tjcfa
April 21, 2014, 7:25pm
#358
Cafes, stores, library, anytime a women is by herself. anytime a gazelle strays from the herd it is prey.
numi
April 21, 2014, 7:36pm
#359
Can men and women be friends? Sure. I’m always willing to lend a helfpul hand to a friend in need.
system
April 22, 2014, 2:49am
#360
Forced, instantly raises her guard, Energy draining.
