Can men and women be friends?

Palantir · January 24, 2014, 12:42pm

It’s not about the hunt, but about the fact that somebody was willing to strip naked in front of you and let you do a range of beautiful and disgusting things to her…

brain_wash_your_face · January 24, 2014, 2:32pm

I agree Nana, sex is yucky! I don’t want girl cooties!

krazykanuck · January 24, 2014, 2:49pm

Based on Nana and Japan’s demographics I’m beginning to think they simply don’t enjoy having sex, even for child creation purposes.

numi · January 24, 2014, 2:53pm

Sure we can be friends, but only when girls stop trying to sleep with me on the first date. Makes me feel so used.

http://vidcy.com/what-if-guys-and-girls-changed-roles-at-the-bar/

krnyc2008 · January 24, 2014, 3:25pm

I don’t think she meant to say sex is inherently wrong. Just not worth ruining professional and personal relationships over (the case of coworkers)…

whatsyourgovt · January 24, 2014, 3:44pm

My man, i’ve already come to this conclusion. Happiness is something we cannot all be blessed with.

system · January 24, 2014, 3:52pm

My man, happiness is a choice…no ones blessed with it

system · January 24, 2014, 3:55pm

Back on topic, a movie called definitely,maybe is coming on tv right now. Ryan Reynolds and Isla fisher.

Nice take on how two people attracted to each other remain friends.

igor555 · January 24, 2014, 4:01pm

its possible if one of them is gay or there is no alcohol involved

NANA_Hachiko · January 24, 2014, 5:41pm

I don’t know if men on forum like to act more “alpha” and “aggressive” because that’s the social acceptable behaviour or is it truly how they think AND act (a lot of people may think one thing but never put it in action).

But if men (or at least most of them, as represented here) are all sex driven “i will have sex with every women come across me and those who are not attractive i need not to waste time on them”.

Then perhaps, i really can’t be friends with men.

T_T

NANA_Hachiko · January 24, 2014, 5:44pm

I didn’t say sex is yucky, i think sex with your married coworkers is yucky!

NANA_Hachiko · January 24, 2014, 5:46pm

I am sure there is a gray area where men and women are attracted to each other but timing and everything else prevent them from getting one step closer and they remain “friends”.

But i still think that more percentage of men and women just aren’t attracted to each other beyond friends level.

former_trader · January 25, 2014, 3:22am

+1

former_trader · January 25, 2014, 3:25am

NANA_Hachiko:

whatsyourgovt:

Nana, baby, it’s all about the catch. I think the bros in this forum (FT, ramos, ect) all agreed on this.

On a different note, you pay for women one way or another. It may not be as direct as cash, but it could be a dinner, drinks, or even (imo) the most important payment, your time and attention.

I don’t know if men on forum like to act more “alpha” and “aggressive” because that’s the social acceptable behaviour or is it truly how they think AND act (a lot of people may think one thing but never put it in action).

But if men (or at least most of them, as represented here) are all sex driven “i will have sex with every women come across me and those who are not attractive i need not to waste time on them”.

Then perhaps, i really can’t be friends with men.

T_T

Most men you hang around with (whether dates or just friends) will never tell you what they really think. You would have to be a fly on the wall when they are with their buddies to know what they really think.

system · January 25, 2014, 7:28am

What do you mean by that?

system · January 25, 2014, 11:29am

Even castle is a good ex of 2 people being friends despite the attraction

whatsyourgovt · January 25, 2014, 4:19pm

NANA_Hachiko:

whatsyourgovt:

Nana, baby, it’s all about the catch. I think the bros in this forum (FT, ramos, ect) all agreed on this.

On a different note, you pay for women one way or another. It may not be as direct as cash, but it could be a dinner, drinks, or even (imo) the most important payment, your time and attention.

I don’t know if men on forum like to act more “alpha” and “aggressive” because that’s the social acceptable behaviour or is it truly how they think AND act (a lot of people may think one thing but never put it in action).

But if men (or at least most of them, as represented here) are all sex driven “i will have sex with every women come across me and those who are not attractive i need not to waste time on them”.

Then perhaps, i really can’t be friends with men.

T_T

Whose bias do you seek? Do you want affirmation stating the untrue, a fantasy land conceptualized by adolescent girls, or do you wish to be in the know? In other words, do you choose the red pill or the blue? If you want to find companionship with a male, find a gay, otherwise there are material differences that will distant the two.

Q for the women, why do you always ask if we (men), are happy?

former_trader · January 25, 2014, 4:22pm

^ Those that ask that question are insecure.

jcole21 · January 25, 2014, 4:29pm

even in that instance, the dude is just prospecting. Plain and simple.

I dont on want to be friends with any woman other than my wife. If I’m just chilling I’d rather be with my bros, excluding when someone is hunting - then eligible females are welcome.

system · January 25, 2014, 5:54pm

That’s your call.

chilling with chill women has its benefits, if nothing it’ll keep your wife on her toes