If there’s one thing I’ve learned through the years is that women will chase after men they’re interested in, especially in the “texting” age where texting is a low risk way to contact someone (as opposed to calling someone).
I have a trick to know if a woman is into to me. I never contact her after the first date. If she’s into you and wants to see you again, she usually sends a text the same night or the next night saying “I enjoyed my time with you…bla bla bla…thanks for the drinks”. If she doesn’t text you, she ain’t interested. I broke my rule last month. The girl was a solid 9. She never texted me back…so I did 3 days later and she told me she had a good time with me but felt no chemistry. That just proved my rule. I’m a serial dater so I know what I’m talking about. If she wants to see you again, she will contact you.
the texture in which it plays out would be different in different places.
all i’m saying is the rejection is fine,the rejection is brilliant…“fk you bitch,you have no taste”…the flake on the other hand…you were into me,you were pinging of me…so why overthink?
i mean i was talking to this girl about a week back and she was completely in…i could tell…i took her no and i was leaving and she grabs my phone and says “no,no you have to add so and so code because my no is internationally rerouted” and proceeds to key in the number and name herself.
so i was happy,generally i would message a bit and then ask her wherever but she had no what’sapp and messaging is a bitch so i called her directly after a couple of days and made some shit small talk,asked her for coffee…STONE COLD BLOWOFF and i was like heh?wtf?
A couple of hours might have been too early. It gives away that you liked her, which I understand you guys don’t want to do for whatever reason. I think it’s fine though since if she also likes you, she’ll be flattered, but if not then it wouldn’t matter anyway if you texted 2 or 12 hours later.
As for her not responding, nothing you can do but wait. If she doesn’t respond, try texting her in a couple of day something neutural, mayby referring to something that happend during date. If she doesn’t respond then, move on.
I know, I’m not saying he looks like a over attached wimp or anything… I just wouldnt have even said that I had a great time, I would’ve just said, “Cant believe the waiter was such a douche” or something… she’s not going to become less attracted to him because he didnt say he had a good time, but she may become less. Depends on how the date and their other correspondence went though.
It seems like you are playing it safe and it’s fine - rejection is a b…ch But you might have missed out on some of them who were interested but assumed you weren’t since you never contacted them. IMO many (if not most) women want the guy to text first.
I dont think they’re all going to text you if they’re interested. I’ve had plently that I knew wanted more and they just didnt want to risk chasing the guy. On the other hand I’ve been on dates where the girl text me the next morning saying “thank you” or whatever and I figured there was nothing there for either of us, and the thank you was just a courtesy… I dunno though, I have a hard time reading women
Don’t worry about it bro, stallions like me and you, we’re gonna win this game in the end. Esp once you get your charter and these sloots see how many AF points we have.
I would agree with you before the text age. Not so now. Women will text.
I have an example fresh off the presses. Just got a text 30 minutes ago from a women I dated last week. She goes “I thought we had a good time, what you up too this weekend?” Women will not call, but they will text IF they are interested.
This girl I went out with earlier this summer did nearly that exact thing. We went out mid week and I didn’t respond to a text she sent later that week… then the texted me the Saturday evening that effectively said “I’m free, lets go out tonight”
If the girl liked you and is texting you on phone, skype, etc, how to delicately show her, that no continuation is pending? It has always been hard for me, especially when I was drunk and I liked the girl but next time we meet I don’t feel anything for her.
Alright ft. I’m trying out your strategy. I met a girl out last night to watch a bit of monday night football and have a couple beers. Now normal krazykanuck would text her today, but I’m gonna wait it out. See if she texts first.