Girlfriend Break-up!!!

storlab · March 30, 2015, 6:19pm

LOL Zina…this can be our little support group. This isn’t the time for drama…so it’s great that your support group is in tact. Unfortunately I don’t have very much support from any angle.

This test is Uber difficult for me to navigate. Best of luck to you!

whatsyourgovt · March 30, 2015, 7:56pm

ive been through 2 breakups during my studies - the first one impacted me, the 2nd not so much. Dont think about it and go out every once in a while to maintain confidence

With my gf now, who i will be moving in w come aug, knows my situation but it helps to communicate every now and then why you are doing what you are doing and why it encompasses all this time.

zxfmontreal · August 29, 2016, 6:37pm

Godism17:

Men (women too) don’t change, they can only temporily do so bc they want you but then will “revert back to the mean”. Buy it as is or Sell it. The business of changing men is a Value-Trap: you think you found someone great and just need to change a few things, where you can add value, but it will backfire. People don’t change. They have to want to really badly to do it organicly.

Sometimes it takes a woman leaving a guy for them to realize the problem. And then the next girl will benefit from this “training session” on how to please a woman. I consider it community charity work to womankind, I had to improve a few this way.

Have faith, pass L3, you will be beaming after --then your awesome glow will attract the right man for you:)

And join eHarmony or some NY social activity clubs thought I don’t trust random chemistry, you need fundamental compatibilty from a backtested algorithm (e-H) lol.

Totally agree on the men/women don’t change part!!

Also kinda agree on the training session part. **** shouldn’t have told the guy what he did that bothered me. Anyways, I don’t think he would change~~~

Cheers

joe35y · August 29, 2016, 7:34pm

system · August 30, 2016, 4:06pm

you should send your love to their new lover

ayodayo · August 30, 2016, 4:17pm

Gf and I broke up the Tuesday before the exam.

Still managed to band 13 the exam.

if your significant other adversely affects your studying, drop the bad habit and upgrade post-exam along with your new initials.

Flashback · August 30, 2016, 4:34pm

Yeeah…Short: Girlfriend Long: CFA