A small greeting card telling her that you enjoyed “spending time with her,” last friday (since she must be a little nervous too) might be nice. Then let her know that you want her to feel as comfortable as possible at work and hope she will feel welcome to come talk to you if she wants to discuss anything. That lets her feel like you enjoyed being with her, and lets her know that you want to make sure that as little weirdness as possible happens as a result. There will be weirdness, unfortunately, there always is. But hopefully it will be manageable and dissipate quickly.
I agree with bChadwick however I would still try to grab her ass at some point during the day.
Just make sure your don’t find yourself stuck alone in the stationary room with her. She might lock the door, turn off the lights, and rip your pants off. As PMwannaB notes, she may be a “cougar” who hunts for young men!!!
If you ever get stuck in the stationary room and you feel uncomfortable with her advances then just fake an epileptic attack. Otherwise you might insult her. It’s better to freak her out than to insult her.
Don’t put anything in writing. Anyway, has anybody else considered the non-work-related side of all this? If anything ever came out and she felt threatened, could she pull the whole “I didn’t consent” thing? In college, if two drunk people hook up, and the girl later regrets it, doesn’t the guy automatically get sunk even if both were drunk and seemingly okay with the act at the time? I’d just be really nice to her from now on… I doubt it would ever come to this, but don’t tell a soul. You know, besides the entirety of AF.
Dude, there’s nothing to worry about at all. In fact, to underscore this point, I suggest you meet her up for killer margeritas tonight after work, get super blitzed and give her the first/best arse-sticking she’s ever had. It’ll put you in the driver seat. TRUST!
I’m so late to this party, there’s nothing I can really add, but let me say this, congrats equity_research_nds! Welcome to the club… On somewhat of a serious note, take grunt’s advice; be very nice to her and act like nothing happened. As for kkent, you are extremely serious…respect.
Bump. Damn, I feel like wanting to purge my dirty little secrets here. Maybe there should be a dedicatd forum for this purpose.
There is…but are you worthy, young grasshopper?
For anybody that watches the reality show, Rob’n’Big, I’d like to quote BIG - “YOU DID WORK, SON!!!”
I want to be part of an epic thread, lol. All of us here are dying to know…any updates equity_research_nds ?
He sent me a text message and asked me to update you’z guys. Apparently, our hero found himself alone with her in the lobby under the parking garage. After several seconds of uncomfortable silence they agreed to meet again that evening. At that evening’s meeting they set up ground work for further rendevii (that’s plural for rendevous). More to come…
Please provide a name for this soap opera. Also, name the prize for the best soap opera name (e.g. skip level 2 go straight to level 3, etc.). 1…2…3…Go
equity_research_nds Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > well i have reached office…and i was making a > big deal about it… its as if nothing has > happened…we didnt even talk about it and it was > straight back to work 
Woah, not even skipping a beat…straight back to “work”…
bchadwick Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > A small greeting card telling her that you enjoyed > “spending time with her,” I have always thought “enjoyed spending time with you” is even worse than not calling.
Guys, I am surprised she hasnt even bought it up this week its as if nothing has happened… is that a good sign or a sign of the silence before the hurricane? I havent talked about and avoided as much contact as i could but what surprises me is that even she hasnt talked about it.
ER_NDS - To get a better feel on this…did you stay at her place or yours? Did you/she stay the night? How did you end it… ie did you discuss what it was going to be like on Monday. It has got to be awkward. It might be a good idea to go up to her and say “I’m getting coffee…do you want to get some.” At which point you try to smooth things over. Of course if she declines you feel like a total a-hole.
Hi equity_research_nds, Indian females are pretty shy, you will have to make your first move 
dancingqueen Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > It has got to be awkward. It might be a good idea > to go up to her and say “I’m getting coffee…do > you want to get some.” At which point you try to > smooth things over. Yea, just say “I’m getting some coffee… want to do it?”
equity_research_nds Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Guys, > > I am surprised she hasnt even bought it up this > week its as if nothing has happened… > is that a good sign or a sign of the silence > before the hurricane? > > I havent talked about and avoided as much contact > as i could but what surprises me is that even she > hasnt talked about it. this isn’t exactly a ringing endorsement of your performance. next time, slyly pop a couple of them blue diamonds before hand. although rare, side effects lasting longer than 4 hours are serious and require immediate medical attention.