Im dead serious...

That strangely flatters me

No. It’s not part the equation.

But congrats CFAvsMBA! Awesome news:)

Rude to talk about a girl like that even anonimously

Are you going to give her a second chance? Also - I said this before - its all about the chase. Sucks that night, but take pride in the fact that she didnt give it up on the first night.

I hate the chase concept. Chase has to end at some point and then what? You just move on?

When do guys get tired of it? 30s? 40s? never?

No way to build a meaningful relationship with that kind of attitude

yeah I agree

I think it’s all about the fcking

I’m in my mid 20s and i’ve had two LT relationships since college w that attitude…

I think your understanding of this mantra is skewed. It means to find girls that make you work for it (hence the chase). What I’m trying to convey is to go after quality rather than quantity. As for what to do when the chase ends - well that depends on the person.

+1

Everything else is boring

And I understand if the person is just in that phase of life at a time…

But the impression I get it’s that how guys operate in general all the time!

You are right. I see it as the opposite – the preference of quantity vs quality. Once the chase is over (no matter how long it took) the guy gets bored and moves to the next target.

I’m going to disagree. Those who have had FWB, how many times until you get bored? 2 or 3 times, maybe even once? Psychologically, the true reward from sex comes from the effort and how hard it was to get it.

And not just that, but with MANY different partners… So I am right?

Not the same for women

Yes, together, an orgy.

I obviously didn’t mean that

You are very sensitive and sentimentalist my friend.

You are overpricing sex

Enough sex talks in the no-fap thread

Sorry no-fap brothers and sisters for my unethical behaviour.

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You are very sensitive and sentimentalist my friend.

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Not the worst qualities in a guy.

No I am neither, well maybe a bit of a sentimentalist. My last two GFs have been dimes and I dont plan on moving down the ranks.

I know but if was very nice of me to pretend like I enjoyed being there, laugh, pick up the tab, and be a gentlemen inorder to perserve her self esteem, I think I can vent here a little bit…