True, I’m not defending it as right, I pointed out that I’m definitely against it, and it is wrong. It just doesn’t seem AS extreme to me as some people made it out to be, demanding 20 year sentences or life in prison and the such.
I mean, we did waterboard the occasional rebellious cow, but who doesn’t?
I have no respect and time for men who abuse children, the elderly and the disabled … verbally, physically, emotionally, financially or in any other way!
There are women who abuse men too. I don’t believe that women are as disadvanatged as the other 3 categories in my list. They make up for the relatively less physical strength in other mysterious powers they have over men.
But to answer your question, there is no excuse for men or women abusing one other but to inflict it upon a child, an old person or a disabled person is absolutely unforgiveable in my book.
No, you don’t have to have kids to feel empathy, but it does matter. The degrees to which I was affected by news stories like this has greatly increased since I had kids. My wife can’t even watch the local news anymore because it’s always about some tragedy befalling a kid.
The only way someone would understand is if he/she was a parent. There is really no other way to gain that type of perspective. I mentioned this earlier in the post but the movie “The Road” was disturbing to me in so many different ways. You would have to be a parent to understand.
That happened to me. Before having kids I couldn’t even notice other kids’ existence besides the inconvenience of hearing their tantrums or loud voices. Now I probably just became soft after having a daughter.