atush, we really could have done without those photos. If I wanted to see average chicks in ill fitting I’d just walk outside. This is Texas after all. They can’t all be 9s…
I don’t understand how this is “body shaming.” If anything, it’s ,er, harder for men/boys to concentrate when there are hundreds of teenage girls bouncing around. It’s more of a body worship thing if anything. The second part of her arguement, the sexualization of women, I guess has merit, but when an 18 year old boy sees a fairly attractive 18 year old girl sporting pokies, looking like one of Charlie’s Angels, he’s going to think the obvious.
That shouldn’t be taught to be wrong. It’s a basic instinct. Women should be (and I believe they are fully) aware of the effect they have on males. It’s not like we can just flip a switch and not think certain thoughts. It would be another thing entirely if the boys were harassing her or whatever. But, it seems the worst thing that came of this was one male teacher was getting the hots for his student.
A school administrator should have taken the teacher aside and said, “cool your jets and be a professional.” Case closed.
Totally depends on the woman’s figure. If she’s naturally “perky” or a B cup or smaller, braless is awesome. For women with larger breasts, especially after they’ve had a kid, they get “hangers” and that’s a pretty bad look.
Rule of thumb, it depends on where he nipples naturally point. If they point straight forward to up - no bra can work for them. If the nipples point to the ground, they need a bra.
one time (when it wasn’t creepy) i was on the T in boston travelling through the Boston University section on the green line during the first week of school and this smoking hot petite brunette (looked like a freshman) got on wearing short shorts and a see through wife beater with no bra (definitely on purpose - she wanted to make an impression in her first week of college). Easily a DD with a tiny waiste. Thinking about that still makes it move.
EDIT: STL they were definitely pointing in the right direction.