I don’t know. I think women have a certain power over men that comes from withholding sex. Men must compete for women’s affections by buying them food and gifts, fighting, or otherwise winning over other males. If it becomes normal for women to give it away like men, then women will lose this power.
brain_wash: the people who win in your scenario are gay men. My gay friend told me that it’s great because they can basically have sex all the time.
I was once trying to make evening plans with a girl I’d been seeing for a few weeks. Asked her what she was in the mood for, and she responded “Let’s f*ck first, eat later.”
Never had a woman say that to me before, so seemed a bit slutty at first. Later it occurred to me that it wasn’t slutty – it was awesome.
I understand what you’re getting at - women should have the right to express their sexuality as much as men without being judged. But why is this so? Why should they? Why shouldn’t men judge female behavior differently?
Not slutty.
Yup, the key point being that you were seeing her. I assume seeing means dating.
It’s still slutty…it’s just awesome that you’re the dude. Of course, I wouldn’t continue to see such a person, it’d be a hit and quit it type of deal for me. If a girl makes me wait…and I do, then theres obviously something about her that’s worth it plus she definitely respects herself more to be selective like that and I don’t want to be with a chick who doesn’t respect herself…those end up being the depressed psychos with daddy issues. EDIT: After reading comments above, it would have been slutty had it been the first night or something but yea since it had been a few weeks, not slutty.
Yeah by “seeing her” I meant we’d been out on a few dates over the course of a few weeks. I think when most people say “seeing someone” they mean something more serious. This wasn’t particularly serious, but it was a ton of fun while it lasted.
So had you been seeing her in a biblical sense, numi, or was this the your first biblical time with this biblical HCB?
Gotta admit, the younger generation is open for everything, it seems. I’m sure glad I’m still young enough to enjoy it (though I’ve had to take a break now that I’m more serious with someone).
I don’t get it.
So you were casually dating with no expectations?
Damn, why are you guys so curious about Numi’s business? It’s not slutty either way, since he put in the work. My guess is it was the third date. Due to societal pressures, many women won’t sleep with a guy until the third date, even if they want it on the first.
As I said before: end the oppression!
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Same with having sex, were just different…a woman is literally letting someone else inside her (sorry a bit crude)…a man is not, he has less to lose and less to give.
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And men have to put the most sensitive part of their body into some strange hole.
I just don’t buy this argument, but I know I won’t get any support on this.
The term is “knowing” a person. You know, like Lot “knew” his daughters, and they got pregnant, and had his kids. Or grandkids. However you look at it.
Genesis 19:30-38
EDIT - This was AFTER he had already offered up his virgin daughters to be gang-raped by the men of Sodom. “They have not yet known a man.” He figured that this was a better alternative than the men getting to have gay sex with the angels sent by God.
Genesis 19:1
Um… Because men get to do that.
“Slutty” generally refers to the initial barrier to sex. After you’re already doing it, all kinky things are acceptable. HCBs just don’t share the information with other people. I’m sure said woman would be mortified if numi told that story to people she knew.
^^Right, but why should it be the same for women?
So because we get to pee standing up you should be able to also?
i (non-Biblically) knew that. I was just having fun by stretching the expression to “seeing.”
Seeing is believing. And believing is knowing, for those with faith.
And I’m making no judgement about Numi’s HCB. It just seemed like a fun story. I’m not opposed to a good story here and there. I didn’t like it when Nuppal would tell his stories and put up photos of his conquests. Stories about anonymous people are one thing; making them identifiable was reprehensible though, even if the stories were true.
I’d explain, but one of my companies just beat consensus earnings so I’m busy poppin’ and lockin’ in my office right now.
This is a silly counterargument. Same as saying if women get to wear a bra, the men should be able to do that.
It’s obviously not sensible for either party to do that.
Sluts is the norm. I love em! The past normal girls are now old ladies and wish they could try being the new norm.
Saturday night went with a buddy to an apt shared by 3 college chicks. People there just drinking and hanging out. They start going home one by one and I was thinking those freakin idiots!. At the end of the night there were the 3 chicks and my bud. Before he could I was like I’m going to sleep and picked the hottest girl’s room. She came in 5 mins later and I’ll leave the rest to ur imagination. Next day she acted like nothing happend and I never have to see her slutty ass again. Hey im 22 and will stop hangning out with college people soon.