I just witnessed another example. I was waiting in line at the food court at lunch and overheard two women in front of me. The fatty was complaining about men and how she can’t find a smart, good looking, tall, broad shouldered, funny guy with a great job. She was at most a 6. She is aiming for a 9. Her friend, instead of helping her out by saying the truth, responds with “You deserve the best, don’t settle for anything less. You have such a good heart, a man would be lucky to have you”. As Blake would say, LMAO.
If she knew her rating (6) and dated within her league, she wouldn’t have a problem finding a man.
Was the friend hot? I find it funny when the hot ones, who have no problem dating the kind of guy the fatty wants, build up unrealistic expectations for other women.
^ Yeah I saw the same thing at a happy hour I went to tonight for this group I’m in. There are these 2 chicks, one is also an 8-9, hot, redhead. Sh*t what I’d do to have sex with her. She’s best friends with this short, roundish, 5. It’s like they say, every group of hot chicks needs a fat girl.
How do you define leagues of girls and categorize them?
Is it based on
1)Money they have
2)Looks
3)Combination of both
And most importantly what makes you think that a league 8 girl will never date a league 5 guy???
We have heard enough stories of how a beautiful girls might fall for a rich but ugly man or a rich girl falling for a poor man.I just donot understand the concept of “dating” in leagues.
I always wonder what is their proof or reasoning for they DESERVE the best. I see chicks write this on FB all the time and some of them are known to be mad sluts and not very pleasant…I mean you obviously don’t deserve shit, you deserve what you get…calm your tits. If you WANT something better that’s different than deserving, so much self-righteous crap nowadays.
Feminity, Lots of women that aren’t conventionally good looking have their pick because they’re feminine, know how to dress and are pleasing to be around
I’ve noticed that many attractive women go through 3 stages in the first part of their dating lives.
Stage 1 (16-23 yrs old):
Girls just want to have fun as Cindy Lauper so famously stated. They hook up with the guy that gives her the biggest thrills, the guy that lives on the edge. He’s usually the most popular with a lot of status relative to other boys. Girls here just get things for being young and hot. One day she blurts out “I want to be on a boat”, the next day she’s on a boat. One day she blurts out “What’s France like?”, the next thing you know she’s living in France for 3 months rent paid.
Stage 2 (24 - 29 yrs old): They are starting their careers at this stage. Their standards increase. They’re naive because they think they can get it all: a man that can sweep them off their feet, successful, assertive, outgoing, confident, tall, dark, great sense of humor, handy man, sensitive, intelligent, conversationalist, great in bed, thoughtful, romantic, understanding, family oriented…that will be faithful only to them. That is a high reward, low risk proposition. Those who studied capital markets know that that equation doesn’t work.
Stage 3 (30 - 39 yrs old): There are 2 subgroups at this stage: divorced women and those that never married because they were too picky (read: wanted to date outside their league and couldn’t pull it off). They lose their naivety here. They accept the fact they won’t meet the man that’s got it all. They understand you can either have 1) the successful man that will give you a comfortable lifestyle but won’t give you any emotional investment or have 2) the guy that has low ambition but that gives you emotional investment. Women at this stage keep rotating between those 2 men because neither one can satisfy them long term. In the first case the lack of attention given by the man makes them feel unloved. In the second case, the lack of ambition of the man makes them lose respect for him.