I think this theory is wrong. BSD types can afford to explore their world ( sexual and non sexual ) with relative ease compared to the average joe schmo who for whatever reason has a shit life. The BSD can pay more , can travel more frequently, has better access to certain services and knows his way in and out. I’m not happy to say that the largest customer of child prostitution are also BSD types of people in their own right. The normal husband type will be happy to get a quickie from fat Jenny on weekends, BSDs have resources to explore their healthy/sick fantasies.
But it could be that the non-BSDs want those experiences more, but just cannot pay for them.
Anyway, I doubt that the theory is really correct, for men at least. All those power guys have huge aggressive egos and are unlikely to have submission fantasies. Most likely, they have empowerment fantasies, like in the Patrick Bateman scene with the two prostitutes.
For women, maybe it is true. I generally assume most women have submission fantasies though. Successful women generally only marry successful men, because they like having a dominant partner.
Anyone else notice that hardcore feminists like taking the 3-hole punch in the sack?
the folks commenting here are obviously not at the highest level of BSD-ness. Heavy is the head that wears the crown. it’s a release of the pressure/stress that goes along with being on top that a complete role reversal affords. i thought this is a well documented and widely known phenomenon.
i recently saw a similar study about bosses whose job/industry requires a high degree of ethical behavior. they tend to be the ones who treat their underlings very poorly – something like a release from having to make ethical decisions all day.
This is the closest thinking to what I was basing my hypothesis on. However, in general and after hearing what all of you have to say, I think STL was probably right in saying there is no actual correlation. I imagine the support for my theory that I have observed has been cherry picked from all previous observations as those stand out more in my memory.
For the record, I was not specifically referring to example of extreme kink. It would all lie on a spectrum. I was just thinking more along the lines of being excited by what is not the norm for the individual. TF said it well.
Are you a “dancer” who caters to a specific kind of client/fetish? Because that would explain if your observations tend to fall under the same category.
Let’s not do this.
pics?
I’m not. I actually don’t like those kind of request and will generally try to get out of it. But, sometimes these guys seem like a complete snooze and then you get them back there…