I got the impression (on this website at least) that you, men, want/need to be the ones pursuing
Hell no. It’s just expected of us. Men, even alpha males, are naturally lazy animals. If we had it our way we’d live like male lions. Sleep 23 hours a day, the women prepare the food, and we eat like kings. The only problem with equating ourselves to lions is their average copulation time is roughly seven seconds. Improvement for some I suppose…
I think it’s more that men have to be the one pursuing. Women might pursue some men, but not in the same way.
Ummm…I don’t see what the problem is.
I think women are reluctant to pursue themselves because then there would be no way to know whether the guy really liked you or just didn’t say no to the opportunity to get laid
And how is that different from guys who are pursuing despite not REALLY liking somebody yet hoping to get laid? say they have minimal other options.
No guarantees either way, true
women dont puruse because they dont want to be labeled as sluts or easy
I’m just lazy. I’ve very rarely met someone I find appealing enough that I would bother pursuing… but even then, it’s like meh there’s plenty of fish in the sea, even if he’s really appealing if it’s not meant to be it’s not meant to be.
I may be singing different tune x years down the line, but for now, I’m content with doing nothing and discussing everything haha. That’s the fun part.
Welcome. to. my. world. There is this chick that has been messaging me on okcupid that I have no desire of meeting. She’s a student who works PT at Starbucks, and the deciding factor…she lives in a far north suburb 30 miles from me. I’m sorry but I have a limited amount of time and social spots and truthfully, going out with a 5/10 with limited obvious perks that lives in an incredibly inconvenient area is essentially a non-starter. I know men are supposed to do the pursuing, and I will when the prize is worth it, but honestly most women I come across aren’t worth the effort. I’m sorry but when did full time gainful employment and having an independent living situation become so rare?
I’m just holding out hope that I get the job I’m interviewing for and I can begin dating the young lady on my, ideally former team!
Where are you based? There are no shortage of high-earning single men here thanks to msft and amzn. (I know, you’re looking for girls). I mean plenty of baristas here too, of course, but you learn to filter… nothing is more attractive than being lectured on how I work in evil industry…right…
You know what also sucks? Losers on online dating sites. Sometimes I want to cry with all the abuse I get lol. Someone please tell them that berating women you’ve never met before WON’T GET YOU LAID. Idiots!!
And don’t forget Nintendo.
Lol thanks. L2 happened, so I didn’t have friends, or “friends”.
I’m not sure what happened to him. I ignored him for a while after I realized he’s way too pleased with himself, in every regard, and I’ve come to conclusion that he’s really weird.
Now I’m trying to seduce a nurse. Or a derivatives guy (?I think. I’m not positive what he does). I’m obviously not trying very hard.
Did you show him your BA II Plus?
BA II Plus Professional
Does the guy wear scrubs or expesnive jeans? That’s how you can tell the difference between a nurse and a derivatives trader.
The derivatives trader uniform is North Face or similar vest over dress shirt.
^A male nurse?
I’ve got nipples Greg. Can you milk me?