Oops slagging is an Irish term for making fun of someone - I’ll have to watch the Irish sayings in here!
Yeah so I’ve never slagged you.
Just saw this article about the top 5 reasons chicks aren’t interested in second dates. Pretty funny: The Puppy Dog Betsy, a 50-year-old lawyer in Seattle, mused about a guy she dated who reminded her of that “Sex and the City” episode when Carrie was dating Aidan and complained about how he was too available: He didn’t do the ever-seductive withholding dance or make her stomach flip. Betsy admitted, “The early stage of dating is just one big game, whether we like it or not. It’s a cat and mouse game; puppy dogs don’t win.” The Incessant Flatterer Emily, a 39-year-old writer from Boston, said about one man, “Eagerness can be flattering, but this felt a little desperate… it became annoying. Also, because it was a first date, [I think] it had more to do with a fantasy about me, than me.” Hillary, a 35-year-old magazine editor from New York, NY, remarked, “I went out with him in the first place because he was so complimentary to me. I thought I should give him a chance. Normally I like a man who doesn’t play games, but the flattery really became overkill.” Karen, a 28-year-old health care consultant in Madison, WI, sighed, “He looked like a sad puppy when I said goodnight.” The Edgeless Man Women complained in droves about single men who reminded them of puppies. These guys followed them around and were too eager to please. Men who were “too nice” often appeared desperate or weak. They didn’t have an “edge.” And their “gushing” early emails with excessive flattery were a turnoff. The Over-Gusher Liz, a 41-year-old language translator from Sherman Oaks, CA, told me about the guy who sent such effusive emails after they met that she “was disappointed to receive them.” She said, “I wanted the polite, even enthusiastic thank-you along with a compliment or two, but not the over-gush. I guess I wanted him to maintain a little mystery.” Jenna, a 33-year-old graphic designer in Miami, FL, commented: “He was too nice, too transparent… he didn’t intrigue me.” The Sweetie Emma, a 25-year-old advertising associate in London, described a guy she could have “walked all over.” And Shannon, a 38-year-old accountant from Cincinnati, remembered declining a third date with a too-nice guy who came to her office after she got promoted. He spent hours organizing her files and brought her an expensive “congratulations” plant. She said, “He was so good on paper, and I guess I’d call him ‘sweet,’ but he didn’t have an edge.”
lesson learned: be an asshole to get an asshole
Hahaha Just thinking about the guys I wouldnt give a second date to; being too sweet has nothing to do with it - the girls just arent attracted to them and dont want to say shallow so they say he’s too sweet… there’s one lad over here who is hot and is VERY sweet and extremely polite, when he met me for the first time he agreed with EVERYTHING I said, even when I started saying the most ridiculous things just to get a reaction out of him - still smokin hot though!! And flattery does get you everywhere 
KarenC, your musings on AF are so profound and so intelligent, you are amazing…
*swoon*
And the way you type is so… well… stimulating. Especially the way you casually place your u’s after your o’s in words like labo(u)r, colo(u)r, and flavo(u)r. Its so delicate, and feminine, and somewhat teasing because it’s just a bit wicke(u)d.
I cant compete with bchadwick. Only thing I have on taht is my 12 inch pecker!!
hahaha and that is how compliments go wrong… Actually wait - that was pretty clever, making me laugh by somewhat teasing me through a slagging compliment… good job! btw - thought you were married with kids - tut tut!
KarenC Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > btw - thought you were married with kids - tut > tut! Reports of my marriage have been exaggerated (and the kids too). And no, I’m not King tut. 
I love KarenC’s sentence construction. How she picks and places her verbs precariously close to her nouns; how her adjectives flirt with her pronouns; commas interlacing with hyphens forming the exquisite image of a woman’s lace lingerie; the way you can almost feel the tips of those delicate fingers working the keyboard… bchad in good form today
i love the very elaborate and somewhat interesting compliments you lads are coming up with…continue bchadwick - exaggerated? I’m sure…
JohnThainsLimoDriver Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Just saw this article about the top 5 reasons > chicks aren’t interested in second dates. Pretty > funny: Sad not funny. Who cares what they are interested in, grow a pair guys and live your own life.
“JohnThainsLimoDriver Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Just saw this article about the top 5 reasons > chicks aren’t interested in second dates. Pretty > funny: Sad not funny. Who cares what they are interested in, grow a pair guys and live your own life.” I have it on good authority that chicks like good looking, wealthy, confident guys. If you are not these things, then you have to try to worry about what girls like…alright, off for the weekend.