You are right some of these locations are fruity, if you don’t feel it don’t do it because you wont be comfortable…I like yoga because its relaxing and keeps me fit so I go there regularly and know all the staff there, its like home court…Similar thing with a book store near by…Just go do what you like to do, get outside…Whole foods has every hottie there is…See I go there because I am lazy to cook…every hot woman that doesn’t go out on Friday/Saturday night because she’s gonna get hounded by drunk fucks, is at whole foods on Saturday morning, much more relaxed, and unless she’s having a bad day, she will talk to you…Heck, I even talk to women when I am in line at Chop’d or Chipotle getting food…Just make a freakin comment about what she’s getting, wearing, doing, weather, who gives a sh**, just dont say “where are you from, what do you do” interview style questions, or you are going to scare her away…Relax…My personal experience tells me the cuter the girl, the more open she is to conversation…
^ good advice - I presume you have a girlfriend/wife/fiance then
yup, gf 
thought so with that advice
Here’s some advice: use full stops to denote the end of a sentence rather than flood your post with …'s
Good point Limo Driver, suggestion taken.
I don’t think it’s bad to be single. Go to community service events. You might find girls who are not quite to your liking, but they might have good friends! Oh, and don’t turn down friendship, you might meet friends of friends! Just don’t approach a girl with the intention of dating. Girls have that radar thing, and their defenses go up.
no we don’t!! - why would we put up our defenses if a guy came up to us looking for a date…
KarenC Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > no we don’t!! - why would we put up our defenses > if a guy came up to us looking for a date… …because if some dude came up to you and said, ‘hey, looking for a date tonight?’ you’d think he was a prostidude.
When you put it like that - YES! Except the lads say that in Coppers here (a nightclub) but… don’t use the word “date”
What KarenC is trying to say I believe is that girls want the date as much as you, just that they want the man to be able to hold a good conversation and be able to lead it instead of becoming stilted. In essence, being a little smooth, a good conversationalist who can make a good connection.
Exactly - that’s why the whole friends first thing really helps - she gets comfortable with you - sees you’re capable of intelligent interaction and suddenly you become very attractive!!