https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7pdat3/week_1_of_approaching_women_in_2018/
WE OUT HERE RESPECTING WOMEN - best comment ever
Why does it have to be “I find you attractive so I want to introduce myself?” The dude would increase his results ten fold if he just bothered to half ass a lead in like, “I see you come here often.” Or commented about her airpods/watch/workout routine or something to do with the place or activity.
Back when I was single, the old “Your are pretty, wanna smush smush?” worked just about every time. He should try that.
^has to be a lie
anyways i think directness is important cuz if a chick has a bf, i dont want to waste my time with small talk.
i use this line
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hey, i think ur pretty. uhhh how you doing (usually hows your night going)? usually i get a yes or no here.
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have you been here before? chit chat about hte place where shes from what she likes. ask if she wants to dance.
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grope here grope there. make out. get number.
anyways lets talk numbers.
i holler a lot. maybe 20x per week. roughly takes 5 hours. all in the weekend. all at or outside a club. of the 20, id say 4 to 8 are down to dance. i usually get 2 to 4 numbers. maybe 0 to 2 respond back.
my numbers i admit are pretty bad, but i holler at some of the baddest chicks, like top 10% of the location. i can easily improve the numbers by lowering the standards.
^my man
A stranger saying “Hey I think you’re pretty” as a lead in at the bar/club is different than saying it at school, work, gym, or on the street which is what this redditor said he is doing. Got mad respek for a homie willing to play the odds but there are ways to improve those odds.