I need ur help please!

[Sweep_the_Leg]

@pokhim

@Isaiah\_53\_5

@pokhim

@ohai

Assuming these details are legit, how is this person still employed at your company? She’s getting wasted, coking up, coming in to the office as a mess, and spraying all over coworkers. Or is this just part of “corporate culture” there?

For real. She’s only been around for a few months… she’s fresh outta uni. Big cheeses don’t know how volatile she is yet. I’ve seen lots of people get fired here and there…she could do too… if she really screws it up. I reckon that could be xmas party time… people always get chopped after the xmas party…

her quitting/getting fired is probably the best case situation here

Agreed.

But in the meantime. I’m gonna ignore her.

Depending on her level of crazy, you may want to get in front of this with your wife. Tell her some crazy ass bitch from work is stalking you, repeatedly texting you (optional as she’ll ask to see them and you could incriminate yourself), and threatening (even if she hasn’t) to tell you boss and wife that you guys had an affair.

Then if/when she does go off the rails, your wife will be on your side from the get go. If your wife hears about this from someone other than you, you’re screwed.

[system]

StL Edit: From now on I’m just going to delete your posts. No more editing.

[Robotech]

@Yayyywork

dude your relationship with your wife is one thing, but your career is another. I am a firm believer of not sh*tting where I eat, stay away. Not to mention you have a clear case of grass is always greener, when you are divorced and depressed and posting on here drunk at 3am bored and sad I think we will all point to this and be like… well we told you.

There is no way you & a 21 year old is worthwhile. Maybe for a few hours minutes, sure, but after that there is no good that can come of it. Imagine possibly losing your job for porking some chick at work if she goes psycho (which she has already clearly demonstrated the crazy eyes to us by 1. having interest in you and 2. texting you all the time when she obviously knows you are with your wife, this lady loves drama and if wont change if you get with her. I suggest you crank one out in the bathroom before you go out tonight homie)

I also agree with the others, quit the blow with coworkers. Its a bad look, save it for friends.

+1

[birdman12345]

@The\_Edge

StL Edit: From now on I’m just going to delete your posts. No more editing.

[GorillaNerd]

i dont think its a good idea to snitch on yourself to make you appear less guilty. introducing the idea alone is terrible imo. unless you’re sure shits about to go down. best to bury that shit.

[Isaiah_53_5]

@Sweep_the_Leg

@pokhim

@Isaiah\_53\_5

@pokhim

@ohai

Assuming these details are legit, how is this person still employed at your company? She’s getting wasted, coking up, coming in to the office as a mess, and spraying all over coworkers. Or is this just part of “corporate culture” there?

For real. She’s only been around for a few months… she’s fresh outta uni. Big cheeses don’t know how volatile she is yet. I’ve seen lots of people get fired here and there…she could do too… if she really screws it up. I reckon that could be xmas party time… people always get chopped after the xmas party…

her quitting/getting fired is probably the best case situation here

Agreed.

But in the meantime. I’m gonna ignore her.

Depending on her level of crazy, you may want to get in front of this with your wife. Tell her some crazy ass bitch from work is stalking you, repeatedly texting you (optional as she’ll ask to see them and you could incriminate yourself), and threatening (even if she hasn’t) to tell you boss and wife that you guys had an affair.

Then if/when she does go off the rails, your wife will be on your side from the get go. If your wife hears about this from someone other than you, you’re screwed.

This could be good insurance if pokhim is able to express himself to wifey without her losing it. It depends on the relationship, but I feel like pokhim is not able to safely confide to the wife about the developing situation.

[igor555]

Do not tell the wife.

she will start getting suspicious about everYthing

shell start questioning all ur moves in the future

[ohai]

Plus, pokhim has already been stringing along this young impressionable girl with sexy talk and possibly light groping. So, he’d have to admit some guilt in the situation. It’s not as deep as a hole as if he’d gone the full mile, but it’s still notable. The best strategy is probably full bug out and ghosting. Just deny everything and hope no one in the office talks.

[higgmond]

@Sweep_the_Leg

Depending on her level of crazy, you may want to get in front of this with your wife. Tell her some crazy ass bitch from work is stalking you, repeatedly texting you (optional as she’ll ask to see them and you could incriminate yourself), and threatening (even if she hasn’t) to tell you boss and wife that you guys had an affair.

Then if/when she does go off the rails, your wife will be on your side from the get go. If your wife hears about this from someone other than you, you’re screwed.

Not saying the advice is wrong, but do keep in mind that it’s coming from someone who’s taking his wife to a swingers’ resort.

[birdman12345]

@ohai

Plus, pokhim has already been stringing along this young impressionable girl with sexy talk and possibly light groping. So, he’d have to admit some guilt in the situation. It’s not as deep as a hole as if he’d gone the full mile, but it’s still notable. The best strategy is probably full bug out and ghosting. Just deny everything and hope no one in the office talks.

If pokhim is for real, then I agree. I feel like a lot of people who “confess” to things do it because they want to alleviate their own feeling of guilt, rather than because they want whats best for their partner. So pokhim, if you’re for real, get your shit together and decide whether you want to prioritize your marriage or not. If you wanna prioritize it, cut the shit out and don’t put yourself in situations that could lead to your being tempted from now on.

[Yayyywork]

@higgmond

@Sweep_the_Leg

Depending on her level of crazy, you may want to get in front of this with your wife. Tell her some crazy ass bitch from work is stalking you, repeatedly texting you (optional as she’ll ask to see them and you could incriminate yourself), and threatening (even if she hasn’t) to tell you boss and wife that you guys had an affair.

Then if/when she does go off the rails, your wife will be on your side from the get go. If your wife hears about this from someone other than you, you’re screwed.

Not saying the advice is wrong, but do keep in mind that it’s coming from someone who’s taking his wife to a swingers’ resort.

Is that going to happen or was that just in STL’s dreams? Either way, nice burn

[Sweep_the_Leg]

@Yayyywork

@higgmond

@Sweep_the_Leg

Depending on her level of crazy, you may want to get in front of this with your wife. Tell her some crazy ass bitch from work is stalking you, repeatedly texting you (optional as she’ll ask to see them and you could incriminate yourself), and threatening (even if she hasn’t) to tell you boss and wife that you guys had an affair.

Then if/when she does go off the rails, your wife will be on your side from the get go. If your wife hears about this from someone other than you, you’re screwed.

Not saying the advice is wrong, but do keep in mind that it’s coming from someone who’s taking his wife to a swingers’ resort.

Is that going to happen or was that just in STL’s dreams? Either way, nice burn

A) It’s not necessarily a swingers’ resort

B) Plans have not been finalized

C) You all envy me

[higgmond]

^ I don’t deny C, or at least I didn’t before I read the first paragraph of this article.

https://www.thrillist.com/travel/nation/swinger-resorts-lifestyle-hedonism-ii

[pokhim]

Let’s kill this thread coz, it’s not helping me talking about this everyday. If anything super crazy happens then I’ll let you all know… but for now, lets squash this.

…

THE END

[iheartiheartmath]

@Nerdyblop

i am going to sf on an arranged date cuz our daddies are bffs. but ultimately we cant be forced to get married. im totally down for an arranged marriage though cuz shes hot and rich. the chick prolly thinks the set up is weird. lol. funny thing is, she saw my snap last week with a chick. lol so if i get called out, do i say oh that, no worries, ish a side chick.

A blind date is not even remotely close to the same thing as an arranged marriage.

[Isaiah_53_5]

[klaudnine]

https://www.wsj.com/articles/bridgewater-paid-over-1-million-to-employee-pushed-out-after-relationship-with-dalios-right-hand-man-1510050781

Seems relevant to the discussion… think twice before shitting where you eat!

[Isaiah_53_5]

$1mm probably wasn’t that expensive for them.