So lol my friend has gotten engaged to a lying ass gold digger who is old af. I have already said my piece on the subject so i have done all that i can to dissuade one of my closest friends from making the biggest mistake of his life.
Had no idea he was proposing. he literally called me at 10am asking about a pool party at the four seasons cuz my friend was hosting an event and he wanted to get bottle service. i told her my gf wasnt going so i was just gonna ball up instead. anyways 3 hrs later i meet up with local sunday crew and someone who follows him on fb said he was engaged. i couldnt believe it because he has never mentioned a thing to me and he literally woke me and my gf up.
he was with my other buddy on friday who is a close friend, but is a saint, with a very awesome character. anyways he was shocked too, turns out my buddy was talking about wanting to break up with her. My other closest friend who is his closest friend as well mentioned that he wanted to break up with her a couple weeks ago as well. and I was with the dude when he was hollering at other girls just this month to get a grind on some random chick
anyhow it seems everyone was blindsided. he just posted himself and her getting a ring together. which means this all happened very abruptly. which leads me to think that she must be pregnant for what guy would marry a chick out of the blue. I will find out after work tomorrow when i know the she-devil is not around. Anyways here is my main question:
should i stay true to my thoughts and continue telling him waht a shitty person this girl is? or should i lie and show support and congratulate him in his decision?
also if you get a girl pregnant, is that a reason to marry her? What are some qualities you look for in a person you plan to marry?
Personally I say stay true to your THOTs. Real friends are people who tell it like it is. It sounds like he is dead set on being with the tramp though. Maybe it’s just best to let him live and learn. There is a reason so many people get divorced. She probably just wants a kid and a baby daddy who can support her lifestyle once she has stripped him of all his sanity and bankroll. Seen this scenario play out a thousand times.
Lying ass gold digger old chick obviously realizes you’re aware of her scheme. So, she intentionally influenced this chad bozo to commit to decisions without your knowledge. Anyway, if you ask me, you should keep trying to steer him away from this mistake, until it is really too late, meaning they enter into a prenup-less marriage or if she is actually preggers. At that point, you won’t be able to do anything, and should just pretend to be supportive.
so im going to mind my business. ive given my opinion and its been noted. no point in being a nagger about it! So i will congratulate him today and ask what lead him to this awesome decision. as a friend, our job is not to dictate how he lives his life, but to support him through the highs and the lows. lol anyways! there is that beautiful quote: do what you want and say what you feel, because those who mind dont matter and those who matter dont mind. anyways the advice im going to give him is to be a man, and dgaf about what other people think. do you bruh!
igor - lol quite honestly. i was a bit pissed that i was not consulted for my opinion, but after much thought its pretty petty, gotta stop acting like a lil biatch. also we’re friends on fb, i just dont use fb at all! Im barely a monthly active user lol. very great investment though. no bach party yet, but my life is less lit now cuz im a taken man so the level of excitement i feel for a bach party is pretty close to 0.
guyonabuffalo - so the girl has done this before and has told us about it. shes been with rich persians who treated her “like shit”. shes been badly damaged. i guess some dude who was with her for 4 years, lied about having a family and kind of like stalked her for a good minute or two. some real psycho crap, constant calling and threats. makes me laugh a bit. anyways she damaged goods, always best to avoid that! her list of lies: she fucked over my other friend who was hosting that pool party by moving out with him and not paying rent before she left. she doenst even take care of child, in texas and even lied about it to my friend. my friend had to find out from other people. lastly she lied about me not grinding on her. even if i dont remember it, there is a 0% chance i did not grope/grind during a dance. im a fuck man, its what i do. so a ton of red flags, a ton of lies, she aint right. she aint ethical!
ohai - the dude is aware. as a matter of fact, i either heard it from him or she told both of us her issues/philosophy when we first met her. i almost regret flaunting the dude’s money because well im a hype man. Also im actually supportive of gold diggers, I think anyone who is trying to come up by marrying up is just a smart person, cant hate on that. What i dont like, is when people lie about it. let’s not be so fucking pious. Anyways, everyone, including himself, has told him to be careful, so he pretty much knows whats up. at this point we’re just beating a dead horse. Lol he actually told me he was depressed from hearing the same shit over and over awhile back. so its time to shut my mouth and respect the man’s decision.
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