That’s the way some people roll. They’re married but still like to do what they do.
If I’m a guessing man, her husband is probably at another bar doing it too. Either they’re not happy, or they don’t mind.
At any rate, I wouldn’t lose a lot of sleep over it. Why does it bother you so much?
I take pride in not being a sketchy player. I do have integrity and generally act like a gentleman.
Doesn’t sound too sketchy to me. If you knew she was married and poured the alcohol down her throat to get her in bed, I’d say you were a scumbag. But she came on to you and poured alky down your throat. Sounds like you just gave her what she wanted.
Think about it this way. She’ll either feel bad about it and she’ll decide never to do it again, or her marriage will unravel. If it does the latter, it probably wasn’t that good to begin with. If it were, why would she have gone out looking for a ground-n-pound?
Yes.
(Married 34 years this coming December.)
get that test monday
Did she ever admit to being married? Was she wearing rings? Could you see marks where her rings should be? If no to all three, maybe she wasn’t married and her friend was just trying to c-block because she wanted you herself or was hoping her friend was drunk enough to experiment with her.
Respect. Don’t be a home wrecker.
Yes, it seems so 
! You may really have ‘integrity’ but if the operating word in your statement is ‘generally’ then it is pretty much negated!
She obviously wanted it. Doesn’t sound like he’s wrecking much, if anything.
Either (a) there’s no “home”, or (b) he’s not “wrecking” it.
^I disagree. Be a man of character and integrity and pass on the opportunity. Although she may be unsatisfied, let her get a divorce before chasing other guys. Put the situtation in your shoes, you are stressed out studying for a test and not really in the mood (perhaps you’ve gained a few pounds from a horrid diet). Your wife, unsatisfied emotionally and physically says she’s going out to dinner with the girls but instead is meeting some guy in the back alley. She feels remoseful but likes the realiability of greenie’s cpa and steady income thus decides to stay with him and get some on the side.
On the other side, if you are a cheater and get caught and you were aware of the relationship, i think the husband pulling an OJ is perfectly acceptable.
OJ is innocent, a jury said so.
Spoken like a guy without an Audi.
Yeah. I bet he can’t even do 100 pullups and 1000 pushup and 5000 situps and run back-to-back marathons like the rest of us.
For me it’s just about trust and honesty. If you lie and cheat on your husband/wife, what are you willing to do to your friends and co-workers? A married guy I work with was banging an admin (also married). Pretty sure it is destroying both of their marriages. In the eyes of the company it is not a fireable offense because she did not report to him, but our boss values honesty and said exactly that: “If his wife can’t trust him, how can I?” They’re both basically f’d careerwise, rightfully so I believe.
I’d feel the same way about a friend who always lied and screwed around on his wife, but maybe I just value honesty and commitment more that the moral turpitude soaking American pop culture. I’m not religious, I just believe in keeping promises. If you want ot f around without your husband/wife’s consent then don’t get married. Hell, I wouldn’t even get with a good friend’s ex-gf without his okay. There are other women.
CFAvsMBA, you don’t even know she’s married, so you can’t feel bad. If she was married, then her friend pretty much did the ultimate mind-f@ck to you. I would’ve pissed on her shoes.
Sup Dude. I actually made an offer on an 09’ a4 turbo, probably going to finalize a deal this sat. If i do, I’m def putting on the s4 exhaust sytem.
I’ve also been emailing a few dealerships low balling each and everyone of them with their infinity g35xs. They don’t take kindly to counter offers and despite their sound reputation (sarcasim) they are very unprofessional with their emails back.
Finally, even though I’m in good shape and quasi intelligent (of course on the low spectum for this forum and this is me being sincere), the true thing that separates man from man is character.
Moral turpitude, nice. Haven’t heard that phrase since Beulah Balbricker.
I don’t see anything wrong with this. If she comes onto you it’s not your fault some guy made a hoe a housewife. If you were being a prick and pressured her into cheating on her husband behind his back - that’s bad. If two adults decide it makes sense - does it honestly matter what her significant other or anyone else thinks?
Nice, show me that piece when you get it. Agree on the character, but I think the character comes from YOU not cheating on your wife. If I made my vows before God I would never cheat on my wife…now some married woman coming onto me (a single guy with no commitment to any other girl) I don’t see how it’s my responsibility to reject her…maybe I would maybe I wouldnt, I still think it’s her fault. Of course I wouldn’t want to be the guy who dies in the movie “Unfaithful”…but it was totally the cheating wife to blame, she shouldnt be seeking D elsewhere anyway.
Yeah, if only adultery weren’t in the 10 commandments, we’d just call it a fun night.
If you weren’t actively seducing her, then I think your culpability - while still there, because you decided to participate in her cheating - is substantially lessened. There’s also good likelihood that if she was that direct, she would have gone on to someone else, so it’s unlikely that she would be having a great relationship with hubby if only you hadn’t been around. In my book, a one-nighter is a different level of cheating than an ongoing affair, so best not to let it get into that.
I had a married friend come on to me years back, and I politely declined, but she just ended up doing someone else (she was attractive, but somewhat crazy, which helped a lot in my deciding to stay away, because of course it was tempting). Nonetheless, it was comforting to feel that I didn’t have much to do with it when her marriage finally did collapse.
Move to NY and you’ll be surrounded by married women not satisfied with their financier husbands looking to mess around w young studs. Better yet, join adult friend finder and they will hand select you to plow the wife in front of the husband… You can never be sure of the circumstance but rest assured there will be other opportunities that present themselves not involving any moral delemia.
