I find this persuasive. She was the one who made the commitment, not you. Especially in the case where you don’t know the woman or the husband or the status of the marriage. The best argument I can think against it is that you might be married one day and you hope that your wife would respect your marriage vows. If everyone ignored them, then they aren’t worth anything. People who act against their marriage vows could lead to a societal deterioration in these values, which might negatively affect you in the future. I’m not sure how convincing that is.
It’s interesting that Jesus said let he who is without sin cast the first stone (where the stone is aimed at an adulterer), but he also said that you should gouge out your eye or cut off your hand if they will lead you to adultery (though he was probably speaking metaphorically). He also said that if you marry a divorced woman, then you’re an adulterer because divorce should only be granted due to sexual immorality (which I take to consist of at least adultery).
I find it odd that all of a sudden the religious people come out on this thread. Where were you in “Happy Ghost in the Sky Day” thread?
Interesting note–Jesus said “Let he who as among sin cast the first stone” to the Jewish leaders who brought him an adulterous woman. Then, they all turned around and left, starting with the oldest, then the second oldest, all the way down to the youngest. (The Bible makes a specific point of mentioning this.)
Why? Because in Jewish tradition, the oldest accuser got the privilege of casting the first stone.
CFAvsMBA, should have asked for a threesome. If they act at all offended, you can just be like “Oh, I’m the depraved one. Okay, right. At least I’m honest with people about what I want.”
Appreciate all the love guys (no homo). Thing is, before we left so we could ‘perform’ as she said (never heard a girl call smashing, perform, but whatevs), her friend was like, “Oh, she’s married, but have fun.” Kinda a mindfugg, but it was also at the point of no return given the escalation.
She was this white broad out with her girlfriend visiting from the souf. She was a little country girl with the case of jungle fever. All in all it was fun, but a guilty concience is a mufugga.
If the GF was on board, it sounds like she felt the hubby deserved to be cheated on, or it’s an open relationship. Some couples give each other occasional breaks to let off steam while travelling or something.
Most women’s friends would not let a girlfriend cheat on the hubby unless there was either an agreement like that or the relationship was already in trouble (I.e. the GF thinks the hubby did something to deserve it).
“Perform” is a wierd word for bodily fluid exchange, I agree. Now you have a new kind of “Performance anxiety” driven by guilt.
Some people are married to someone for a green card (on either side of that transaction) or are married to people who come out gay or are gay and married for the sake of appearences.
The world is a lot more diverse than you’d expect.