You guys are so Oprah-fied.
The guys that always pay do not go out very often, or they always go the fast food route, because otherwise they would reallize that dropping a hundred or a couple hundred every couple days es muy estupido. I paid last night. But, ALWAYS paying is simply ridiculous.
brain_wash_your_face Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > The guys that always pay do not go out very often, > or they always go the fast food route, because > otherwise they would reallize that dropping a > hundred or a couple hundred every couple days es > muy estupido. I paid last night. But, ALWAYS > paying is simply ridiculous. I pay everytime but I usually eat out (a meal that is) once a week. Otherwise I think it’s much more intimate to cook together.
I had a lot more success with EHarmony than Match.com. I found Match.com a LOT of work. I had to search for chicks and then send them the same blanket email, which I’m sure they got from everybody. Eharmony gives you like a dozen matches a week for both you and the girl. So they are more likely to pay attention to you.
I’m on match.com and found a profile of a flight attendant who says she wants to “get into finance after her MBA, probably investment banking.” I’m normaly one of those people who is last to bash someone for pursuing a dream. I have a soft spot for stories like Rudy and Rocky, but I just couldn’t stop laughing.
Flight attendants nowadays have higher education, speak several languages, are trained for emergency situations, pass psychological tests. They are not just waiters anymore. In any case I read on this forum about a waiter who graduated from Wharton. Why not vice versa?
Hilarious thread.
I am a little tipsy right now and this is probably the first message I have sent out not trying to get in a girl’s pants. She didn’t even have a picture posted. She did however state body type as athletic and toned so lets wait and see. I sent an email with the subject “unsolicited career advice” and told her that capital markets are going to be subdued for the medium term at best which will mean fewer deals and fewer analyst positions. If she understands that and didn’t get interested in banking bc of Wall Street and thought Bud Fox was cute or American Psycho and, wait wow, if that is the case than she is my dream girl and I’ll have to decide whether to call her Christy or Sabrina, anyway she might be able to make something of the advice. I told her if finance is something she really wants to pursue to check out IC or PWM regional firms bc she is going an atypical route.
I just read this thread and there’s a lot of info on here and it looks like the pay vs. no pay overshadowed the OP. OP, here’s my advice. You should send out emails to the women you find attractive. Send out a lot. It is a numbers game due to the vast amount of responses that attractive women receive. One small paragraph (3-4 sentences) with a little wit is decent enough. I went out with 2 girls I met on the internet in July. It’s much better to PURSUE on the internet than it is to wait for responses. You should also respond to ads very soon after they are put up. I am backing bromion, the millionaire HF dude who can afford to pay, but won’t because it communicates the WRONG message. Yeah, some girls may be turned off, but with all due respect, I prefer women who don’t expect me to shell out my wallet on every date, ESPECIALLY in the beginning. In the beginning, to me, the date should be fun and inexpensive and each person should pay his/her own share. This is not about being cheap. This is about making the dating frame not about the money. If I like the girl, then yes, I will pay on occasion. But this can only happen after we’ve already been sleeping together and things are progressing.
Update: I am on a new online dating site- I won’t mention the name- and I am having much more success. I am using pieces of BCHADWICK’S essay, and have posted different pics. Attractive girls have contacted me via IM and email!!! I chalk this up to one thing- I am on a “niche” site (think religious even though I am not), so the pool is smaller, i am competing with fewer guys. Also I hear the girl to guy ratio is 54/46 on this particular site. Anyway I joined about 10 days ago, went out on one date, talked to a total of 3 women over the phone, and currently emailing with 6 or 7. It’s actually a bit overwhelming, so I can totally feel for women who receive and have to manage multiple emails.
L3BeatIt Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Update: > I am on a new online dating site- I won’t mention > the name- and I am having much more success. I am > using pieces of BCHADWICK’S essay, and have > posted different pics. > Attractive girls have contacted me via IM and > email!!! > I chalk this up to one thing- I am on a “niche” > site (think religious even though I am not), so > the pool is smaller, i am competing with fewer > guys. Also I hear the girl to guy ratio is 54/46 > on this particular site. > Anyway I joined about 10 days ago, went out on one > date, talked to a total of 3 women over the phone, > and currently emailing with 6 or 7. It’s actually > a bit overwhelming, so I can totally feel for > women who receive and have to manage multiple > emails. Please email me the name… my address is findingsamm at yahoo dot com
L3BeatIt Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Update: > I can totally feel for women who receive and have to manage multiple > emails. have you seen them text? get over it. be super agressive with the emails, the goal is to have your pick of dates - not to be waiting on 1-2 repsonses.
marcus phoenix Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > L3BeatIt Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > Update: > > I am on a new online dating site- I won’t > mention > > the name- and I am having much more success. I > am > > using pieces of BCHADWICK’S essay, and have > > posted different pics. > > Attractive girls have contacted me via IM and > > email!!! > > I chalk this up to one thing- I am on a “niche” > > site (think religious even though I am not), so > > the pool is smaller, i am competing with fewer > > guys. Also I hear the girl to guy ratio is > 54/46 > > on this particular site. > > Anyway I joined about 10 days ago, went out on > one > > date, talked to a total of 3 women over the > phone, > > and currently emailing with 6 or 7. It’s > actually > > a bit overwhelming, so I can totally feel for > > women who receive and have to manage multiple > > emails. > > Please email me the name… my address is > findingsamm at yahoo dot com www.ashleymadison.com
L3BeatIt Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Update: > I am on a new online dating site- I won’t mention > the name- and I am having much more success. I am > using pieces of BCHADWICK’S essay, and have > posted different pics. > Attractive girls have contacted me via IM and > email!!! > I chalk this up to one thing- I am on a “niche” > site (think religious even though I am not), so > the pool is smaller, i am competing with fewer > guys. Also I hear the girl to guy ratio is 54/46 > on this particular site. > Anyway I joined about 10 days ago, went out on one > date, talked to a total of 3 women over the phone, > and currently emailing with 6 or 7. It’s actually > a bit overwhelming, so I can totally feel for > women who receive and have to manage multiple > emails. Wait, are you saying that you joined a niche site even though you do not belong to that particular niche?
JensensalphaMale Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > L3BeatIt Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > Update: > > I am on a new online dating site- I won’t > mention > > the name- and I am having much more success. I > am > > using pieces of BCHADWICK’S essay, and have > > posted different pics. > > Attractive girls have contacted me via IM and > > email!!! > > I chalk this up to one thing- I am on a “niche” > > site (think religious even though I am not), so > > the pool is smaller, i am competing with fewer > > guys. Also I hear the girl to guy ratio is > 54/46 > > on this particular site. > > Anyway I joined about 10 days ago, went out on > one > > date, talked to a total of 3 women over the > phone, > > and currently emailing with 6 or 7. It’s > actually > > a bit overwhelming, so I can totally feel for > > women who receive and have to manage multiple > > emails. > > > Wait, are you saying that you joined a niche site > even though you do not belong to that particular > niche? Yes, I am culturally Jewish, like many of the folks on the site. Not practicing.
^ Oh, okay. That’s not bad. Glad you’re finding some success. Best of luck with it.
Which one did you join if that is not a secret? JDate?
Online dating is quite fun, it is all about playing the numbers. Email as many girls as you can every day and wait for results, set up cheap dates or dates that she will pay for and talk your way into her panties. Filter by age and never contact any girl older than 25 and you will do fine
comp_sci_kid Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Which one did you join if that is not a secret? > JDate? Yes.
flushdraw Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Online dating is quite fun, it is all about > playing the numbers. Email as many girls as you > can every day and wait for results, set up cheap > dates or dates that she will pay for and talk your > way into her panties. Filter by age and never > contact any girl older than 25 and you will do > fine you better be kidding!