First Meeting: Talk about the firm, my resume, then mainly about their situation - so I can understand their current situation. I just ask question after question. Learn about their current financial plan (if they have one), current experience with advisor, what are they happy with, unhappy with, expectations (investment returns, service etc.). By the end of the first meeting, I’m going to make a decision as to whether or not I want a second meeting. Ask them the same. (If you want to have the second meeting, it gives you some time to think about their situation, so you can make some additional points for the next meeting. I never like to do stuff on the fly in the meeting).
Second Meeting: Introduce the wealth planning tools I use for clients. Outline their issues and opportunities as part of a financial plan.
Third Meeting: Talk about investment management, philosophy and strategy. This concludes the discovery process. Client and myself need to decide on whether we will proceed to become a client or not.
Fourth Meeting: Complete account opening forms. Initiate wealth planning: Investments, Financial Analysis (Retirement, cash flow plan) Insurance, Tax Planning, Wealth Transfer.
The nice thing about this business is you can choose to be picky in whom you want to work with as a client (if you want). My philosophy is that when I sign up a client, they are going to be a client for life. I want clients who are going to participate, follow advice, and are nice to work with, they see value in the work we do and are going to pay for it.
If they don’t see the value in the planning, its likely because their (current) advisor never took the time to educate them about the process, or didn’t quantify the value of the benefits of the plan for them.