Isildurr, things are somewhat icy now. We are cordial, even friendly, but a lot of the warmth is gone.
I might well have gotten involved with her if I hadn’t gotten involved with my current GF first (met them both around the same time). My current GF is clearly better relationship material, more emotionally stable and just a good all-round partner, but the other one is still very attractive and a little more intellectual, which I like. So it hurts a bit that the warmth is gone, but it’s probably just as well, because it was an enormous temptation to do something that would screw up the good thing I already have going.
In a perfect world (for me), I’d get to be with both, but since the world is imperfect, I’ll stick with my current bet.