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He is getting it somewhere if he is as great as you claim.
You owe me a new keyboard.
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Ohai was subtly poking fun at the guys’ attitude on this forum. Being facetious.
In any case, instead of asking us, why not talk to him? None of us knows what is going through his head, only he does. You say you like him “that way” and he doesn’t. Ask him why that should affect your friendship - but beware, he might tell you and you may not like the answer. (e.g. he thinks you are boring or clingy or something.)
Also, are you OK with just being friends or would you keep pressing hard for something more? Maybe that’s in the back of his mind.
Best advice so far.
@1recho: the reason why I ask here is that probably guys would be much more familiar with the way a guy thinks… he’s a good friend and does like me as a frnd… but that’s it… the fact that I love him is nt the reason for anything. He’s not that kind who would let this affect the friendship… I dont knw what he thinks but I never expected him to feel the same for him just because I do… I have accepted the facts and am perfectly fine with it… his preferences/likings do matter a lot to me even if I am not one of those… Anyways, things just seem more normal now than when I started this thread though the reason for his changed behaviours is still a mystery ;D… so be it… !!
So you are hanging around this guy because you like him but he only likes you as a friend? Sounds like it’s time to move on. I know a guy who is going to start business school in Europe who can teach you a thing or two.
What do u mean by hanging around this guy… he was and is my friend… that’s all… I am moving on and I obviously dont want to lose a friendship because of this !!
Sometimes the friendship needs to take a break so you can do what is best for you. He will still be your friend afterwards.
The break is over 
we weren’t in touch for about 2 months…
Oh boy, I remember that thread!
Oh boy, I remember that thread!
Nice Thread.
I think pretty much every guy should have a female friend. It helps, You obv don’t have to speak to them on the phone everyday and be their emotional tampon, just treat them as you would treat your own male friends.
You can remain friends with a girl you’re physically attracted to once you’re past the infatuation stage and are searching elsewhere or getting tail elsewhere.
Easiest way is your friends GF’S. Even if you’re Brad Pitt I would think they would feel comfortable if they know you’re chasing someone else? I don’t know about this one…
On Another note…does infatuation last differently for different people?
I have some childhood female friends who are some of my closer friends.
Being close friends with females tends to keep you on your toes…So much volatility in their lives.