What to do (typical AF relationship thread )

GASP. OH NO! Not my woman card!!

As long as you are ok with it, more power to you :slight_smile:

salacious broken heart

I’m guessing neither one of you would vote based on gonads?

its funny reading this. i typically tell my friends to degaf and be yourself and dont put women in pedastal.

but in truth. i tell them to work out. to eat healthy. to be successful. and above all else to be confident and holler. i.e . “put it out there”

so when i say to be yourself. i really mean your world class self. any of the above statements can be changed.

then once you are the best you can be. degaf and do what you want. cuz if you are world class. then you will have numbers.

if you have numbers, then you have no problems.

cuz if a chick bails. you just get another 1.

also if you’re a 1. the chances of baggin a 10 is slim. unless said chick is extremely nice. but i’ve seen ugly dudes with hot chicks so it can happen. but be prepared. cuz other dudes will try to steal your girl. its human nature. call it arbitrage. :slight_smile:

Haha …terrific!

You need a signature line… this should be it :slight_smile:

What is “degaf?”

^hahaha i had to look it up. Don’t even give a f**k

Crumb

lol!!

That visual… ouch

OP sounds like every guy I have ever tried to date. Spending time together is great but then you are expected to pay attention to them non-stop as you go about the rest of your life. I guess I am "cold’ because I don’t want to get a “how was your day?” text every evening and be forced to engage in an extensive discussion of the inane details of the time that has passed since the last text check-in. MY DAY WAS FINE, LEAVE ME ALONE, TEXT ME WHEN YOU HAVE A REAL THING TO SAY.

KMD you sound like my soul sister

^Perfect woman.

rorygilmore, I’m about 90% sure you are awesome.

great more female bots. turn them off chad

Update:

The relationship was causing more hassles and distractions than its intended capacity. I decided to pursue solitude ,perhaps I’ll have to start long distance running.

^good.

if OP sounds like every guy you tried to date, then maybe you are also part of the problem. If you’re only attracting one type of individual, that reflects more on your own projections and self-worth than the other person

+1

@rorygilmore:

A)In my culture its pretty common and ok to be a little intrusive of your partner’s personal life. By a little, I mean compared to the standards in the U.S .So sending a how was your day text is not a big sign of being the typical boring nice guy next door.I may sound "too interested " in the U.S standards but definitely not so much in my culture(the girl was from my country too).

B)Regardless of every culture even if your boyfriend is a part time M&A GS banker and part-time Navy Seal their lives become mundane after about a month of hanging around with them so it’s typical that your BF may send those types of stuff ,most people project their own insecurities on their partner and feel good by blaming them. Being a doormat nice guy type is very different than being a guy who may care for the girl he is with and actually thinks it’s important to know how his girlfriend is doing while maintaining his own identity and set of values.

C)Looks like your ideal guy is a rockstar type who treats insecure people like shit ,as I stated above there is a huge difference between being a nice doormat guy and being a nice guy with a true identity.

Being a nice guy makes you a doormat in the casual dating world. There is either nice or asshole in the girls point of view and nice guys always finish last. Girls only care about poindexter’s emotional attentiveness once they have been kicked to the curb by enough a-holes and by that time they have a good amount of mileage on the odometer. I would recommend you start dating cougars or become an a-hole.