Over the weekend me and my wife were invited to a friend of my wifes house.My wifes friend and her husband knew each other through medical school so that made my wife know the husband too.On our way to their house my wife spoke very highly of the husband and how he was the top of their class etc,after we arrived my wifes friend took us on a tour in her house showing everything she had bought in the pas 3 years my wife hadnt seen her.All useless luxury stuff,then she took us showing pictures of how she had travelled the world staying in expensive hotels and all that crap.Knowing the husband was the only one working I was guessing he has to be some BSD in providing this much for her (buying a porsche for her birthday) and how he is the one controlling the dynamics.When this poor whackjob of a husband arrived his wife started ranting abuse at him for arriving late when they had guests,I kept saying to myself it was normal,but about dinner time she told him to take care of dinner and by that she meant putting all the dishes and stuff on the table(you get the idea).Over dinner she kept telling him to use less salt (I was like ok she is a bit dominant but still ok).After dinner she kept making jokes at his expense including the fact that couples should be allowed to have an affair from time to time and shit like that.By this point not only me but my wife was getting uncomfortable too,then she started to ask me about the sports that I do,she got excited when I told her about BJJ (she didn`t even know what grappling was,so I could tell she was up to something and judging by the amount of work she had done on her nails I could tell the only thing she does as a workout is run on the treadmill) and said she wanted to come to our club,I told her its about an hour away so she should look elsewhere and her reply was I dont mind. Anyhow over the course of the few hours we were there she either made passes at having an affair or telling shit to the husband.
Point of the story:Why do men stick to these bitches ? She was blowing their money on useless shit,treating her husband worse than I treat a dog on the street and would clearly was enjoying relationships with people other than her husband.Her behavior was so outrageous my wife made a point not to see her again,but why does the man who mind you is a decent orthopedic is giving his balls away to her llike this ?If someone did a small fraction of that to me I would definately file a divorce.What the heck are some men up to these days ?
The poor guy kept smiling and pretending everything is well and its all a big joke when it clearly wasn`t.
Wait, so the woman, your wife, and the husband all know each other from medical school? And the woman does not work as a doctor?
Anyway, look, the husband has like 22 years of schooling. These sorts of people are very smart but doesn’t mean they have the best social skills. In fact, if anything, I would guess that they are more likely to be bullied in a domestic relationship.
Plus, divorce is a very expensive action, especially if the household income is one sided. Some people might also see it as a “failure” and keep the marriage going for the sake of ego.
^They do know each other,but the husband was way senior then both of them and looks like he was decent in school,his wife is a general MD(she is from my country,over there being an MD is like having a sports car,people dont become a Doctor to have more wealth they become Doctors to show off),but she doesnt work and spends money on whatever she gets her hands on.
“Over the weekend me and my wife were invited to a friend of my wifes house.My wifes friend and her husband knew each other through medical school so that made my wife know the husband too.”
It is pretty simple really. It works both ways. She gets to spend all his money while he (probably not very good looking, socially awkward with no game) gets the trophy wife, gets to bang her, and the ability to parade her round in the neighborhood / take her to functions. All the other doctors remark that he bangs a hot wife and that is all he wants (he puts up with the abuse because he is banging somebody way out of his league on the looks scale). She gets to spend, workout, live a great lifestyle but for that she has to put out occasionally and probably cheats on the side. Everybody wins.
got invitd to a dinner with his wifes friends. husband makes tons of doh but wife is a huge b!tc4. Assuming wife is hot otherwise no reason to keep her around. wife basically says okay to sleep with other peope in front of the husband. then wife starts eyefuc4k!ing Gabe. Could have easily ended with a 3some or even 4.
Best case scenario. … this guy has the woman of his dreams because he gets hot off of humiliation. (Not sarcasm, actual fetish… I don’t get it either) Worst case scenario is the divorce will cost him too much and the wife knows it.
^They’re everywhere, even in my podunk neck of the woods. Always alfuent towns with husbands who work too much and bored plastic housewives who no longer get a thrill out of spending money. height of civilization indeed.
I have seen that type of women before,there is always some dude supporting her in the back so I have also seen the “oh,honey dont say that in front of others” before.What surprised me was the wife is a JHU graduate who put alot of effort into her degree.If she was some b7tch who studied medicine at my home hacksaw university in my country I wouldn`t have been that surprised.Also she came from a very wealthy family in my home country and her father(also a doctor) owns major shares in a private hospital in UK,and a few other top healthcare facilities around the world,her husband has work to do to reach the amount of wealth her father has.
The dude wasnt that much of a weirdo,I mean it was strange how he was so passive and tried to kiss her ass all the time,but he wasnt an outlier in terms of how people look or behave in general.My own assumption is the old time nice guy dynamics,he takes care of her,drives her around if she is bored,his wallet belongs to her and he she shove all her anger to him.I bet she couldn`t do that while in her fathers house ¬ many men would put up with that crap,at least not me.
Gabe, you said you are Turkish? Is your friend and his wife Turkish as well?
The reason I ask is because I don’t remember who it was (whatsyourgovt?) but he said that dating international women is one of the best things. But is it just me or does it seem like foreign women (Middle Eastern, Brown, Asian, Eastern Europe) are extremely materialistic? Their cultures put emphasis on external wealth and they think it’s normal to berate their husbands about the smallest details.
You need to stop calling women with the b- word. It’s one thing if a woman has seriously wronged you, to let it out in frustration, it’s another thing to go around screaming b-tch this and b-tch that as if you were some 14 year old who just discovered the word or just thought that b-tch is what you call a woman you don’t feel like bedding.
One of the hardest things to do is understand what goes on between two people in a couple. Often times, the couple themselves don’t understand it, but we only ever get a partial picture. Perhaps she was mad at the guy because she caught him having an affair, and she was digging at him for that. Perhaps they are swingers and this is them testing the water. Perhaps they just fill their needs really well and it seems odd to the rest of us. Perhaps their relationship is on the rocks and they’re just evaluating whether it’s worth it to try to divorce. We don’t know, and no amount of talking on this board is going to reveal enough.
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