Can men and women be friends?

I went to a client meeting today and met a HCB. Probably makes 2x what I do and actually does something meaningful for a living, as its only tangential to finance. She’s old though, probably 32-33. AF comments are welcomed.

You think she is old at 32. There is your answer!

When kanuck says “she’s old…she’s 32”, what he means to say is “she can really teach me a thing or two if I can get her in the sack”

Go for the older women bro. You won’t go back to the 23 y.o.'s of the world.

To me, it sounded more like a concern…

where do the older women hang out? how do you pick them up?

LeAnne Rimes current hubby married her for the money.

This should be considered more closely.

Have fun with her…but marry someone in the 26-29 age range.

Just saw an interesting survey. Savers have a better chance of getting married than spenders. Savers would never consider marrying spenders, while spenders are open to marrying savers.

See, I’m 24 and getting dangerously close to my quarter life crisis. Just to add a bit of context to that…

Shouldn’t it be the other way around, since saver’s pool is smaller?

I mean like getting contracts signed… Just a list of reasons.

Anyone thinks Asian men are likely to cheat on their wives than Western men? No? Due to tradition bounds, I see Asian men tend to get married at their 20s and many of them didn’t move in with their girls before the marriage. So they somehow get disappointed with their wives when they are under one roof with each other. That leads to cheating too.

Looking back those days, I don’t think I was perfectly fine being that female soulmate. I found that relationship a waste of time sometimes. Anyway, it’s been over for a couple of years. We are still friends (in the true meaning of friendship). I am content with my life now with many career targets that I want to obtain :).

Does his wife know?

Sadly a lot of women think they’ve won by being the other woman!

That happened to someone i know, she’s married to a guy who cheats on her but he claimed he is only doing it because he gets money (in terms of investment to his “business ventures”) from that other woman - like as if it’s a legitimate reason to cheat.

This leads to another topic which i am going to post… marriage bounded by children… another disaster!

I think i’ve shared my story about a 23 year old guy dating a 32 year old woman right??

I hear you on a quarter life crisis:)

But if you are really concerned about the age difference, maybe you shouldn’t waste her time…

I have a friend in that situation. The lady makes bank and pays for everything. Problem is she is bat5h1t crazy and emotionally unstable. He is riding the emotiional roller coaster for the free food and booze. I bet he’s already benefitted five digits so far in consumption and sometimes cash (it’s only been like 6 months. i’ve come over twice and he has $1000 from the night before that she gave him to gamble with ha ha)