@TwiceTheMan : I agree that the number of women that can inspire a dirty thought now and then can be quite large. My main point was that the ones that are frequent fliers on your flights of fantasy tend to be fewer the more attractive you find your primary partner.
That said, if you’re mad at her (or you’re mad at her for being mad at you, which happens), often times you get a price drop for tickets to the fantasy express.
Somebody get me some Tic Tacs…
For that matter, 18 is arbitrary too.
Not wanting to date your daughter is arbitrary too, from what Trump says anyway. Maybe the problem is that other people have unattractive daughters.
Lol, brutal. Do SO’s know?
Ha ha, I don’t think they’re that bad. Admittedly, most of the ones we meet are traveling so are pre-selected as the more interesting subset of the population.
Interestingly enough, one of my mates married and divorced an American chick within 5 years. Turns out she had an err ‘scintillating’ past that from her college days that she kept from him lol. Kicker was she didn’t want to experiment with him because she said she was past it. Ouch!!
Dude played out a real life version of Chasing Amy minus the chasing a decade after it released.
^ Lol.
I think this question can also be reversed. Does your spouse find you physically attractive? People date around their range. A 5 would go out with a 5. A 10 with a 10.
Didn’t someone here (FT?) say that he knew a girl who was casually dating a guy but would hold off on having sex with him because she doesn’t want him to think that she is promiscuous. But meanwhile, would be sleeping with tons of other guys?
Jokes on him for marrying a chick without fleshing that stuff out beforehand.
That’s flat out cheating
Well yeah, it is still pretty funny but he was bummed out when it happened. I wonder if she gave a shit? She went to NYU, I had no idea that was a party college. I thought all the weird frat-style crap happened in Arizona or someplace.
Fun Q - Who would date a bird who has partaken in an MMF in a non-casual manner?
What do you mean by “a non-casual manner.” You mean polyamory?
the key to checking out other chicks in the presence of your significant other/other women is to have something though provoking to say about an item in the distance behind the chick you’re staring at. Works like a charm and improves your ability to think on your feet. never fails
i once worked with a girl who bragged about being with more guys at one time than there are conventional places to “put it”. sweet girl.
No, not from those weird alternate lifestyle POV, like would you be predisposed to not build the relationship long term and just have some fun.
Nice pull from Hall Pass.
Ah, so the question is if a woman having an MMF encounter would make her ineligible for consideration as serious/long-term GF.
For me, the answer is “not automatically,” and would need to be evaluated on a case-by-case basis. A dirty mind is a terrible thing to waste.
Gonna side with Bchad on this one.
Indeed, 6 months is usually enough to get the fun stuff out of the way ;).
Ohhh, so no lines drawn with the Swan? What about gangb@ngs or s3x t@pes? I actually met a porn star recently, not what I expected at all.
I’m probably outside the norm on this, but past stuff doesn’t really bother me at all. If she still managed to be a very cool girl without a beat looking appearance, nice smile, good intelligence which is sort of my target market, then it wouldn’t bother me. Probably just view it as a positive for future potential to do weird stuff. That being said, past experience is often not indicative of future performance, when most girls latch onto a dude for a long term relatioshit they tend to flip a switch and all become the same. Case in point, I dated a UPenn grad school of medicine student that checked all the requisite boxes with the added twist that she’d exclusively been dating women for the prior two years or so (but knew it wasn’t going to be her permanent situation). It was pretty clear from the onset that she went into full possessive mode and there would be no shenanigans which was fine, but often tends to be the case in my experience.
Alternately, I once had a crush on a girl that it turned out had done g@ng bngs in the somewhat distant past on several occasions. I thought it was an interesting talking point and had some follow up questions, but didn’t really phase me or change my view of her.
Gold.