Do you really find your spouse physically attractive?

How old are you? Unless you’re 50-60 when “back in the day” meant you got married straight out of high school at 18…

Like others have said, sex for girls is so easy to get. Not surprised if they bang 10 guys per year and that’s only the average-looking ones.

I’m basically going to have to accept that if I ever get married, the mrs krazykanuck will have a higher number than me.

The good news for guys is that it gets better.

The bad news is that many are married before they can take advantage of it without uncomfortable choices.

  1. I only date foreign girls who come from an “old country” that still instills traditional values.

During my short single period, i was always rooting for the girls not to sleep with me on the first date.

Ha ha, depends on age though. That number makes sense if you’re fishing in the 22-24 age range. Late 20’s and you’re looking at three times that probably.

Well sure, we all know this by now. 20-30% of men get most of the action where as for women the spread is probably more 50-50. The extrapolation you made doesn’t make sense though, you cited examples which while true, conform to self-selection bias. The average number of partners a woman has in her lifetime is surveyed at 9 (even with a little lying is a far cry from 40) which means there is still a sizeable contingent of women opting for the traditional monogamy-marriage route and taking the corresponding top tier men out of the market.

Anyway, it would be interesting if we could quantify why only 20-30 % of men get most of the action, the default response is that they are the top 20-30% but short hairy Ron Jeremy look-alikes and broke struggling artists convinced they’re the next Van Gogh don’t really count as top.

Women are not a one size fits all demographic, even among American girls there are quite a few that don’t buy into that philosophy.

Did someone imply all women fit one demographic? I miss things now and then but I can support your comment completely. I’ve even thought of keeping a diary documenting the physical difference I’ve noticed. And Welcome, please stick around.

I always wonder why jihadis think 72 virgins is a great reward for martyrdom. Personally, I’d much prefer paradise with 72 women who have some clue as to what the hell they’re doing.

Perhaps it’s because they’re virgins themselves, so the inexperience won’t show…

Don’t sweat it. With an exception of a few posters, most chose to stick with the one dimensional views. Whatever makes them feel good I suppose