The best way to get your ex want you again is to hit on her best friend, her sister, a really close friend’s of hers. Also make sure you pick opposite traits of ex (i.e. if your ex gf thinks she too fat then hit on a skinny girl if she had long hair pick a girl with short hair). She’s gonna think that you never cared about her. Its not that she wants you, she just wants to be wanted by you.
brianr Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > needhelp Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > no she is not hot in the conventional sense. > but > > we were very compatible sexually. > > You mean when you stumbled home from the bar at 2 > AM she had no problem with you groping her? no when she stumbled home from bar at 2AM, i had no problem with her groping me.
BrianR - wow that was possibly the worst thing I’ve seen you write on this forum…I’m shocked! BiPolarBoy - someone is obviously single! since you have absolutely no idea how to treat a girl!
KarenC, your right I am single. I only play games if girls play games with me first. If there are no games I’m actually one of the nicest guys you ever will meet. I try to be completey honest when I first meet a girl and will totally respect a girl physically and mentally. But lets be honest some girls toy with guys all the time, why can’t I do the same to them?
KarenC Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > BrianR - wow that was possibly the worst thing > I’ve seen you write on this forum…I’m > shocked! Haven’t found the search function yet?
Bipolar is correct. I’ve seen this happen many times. BiPolarBoyBoston Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > The best way to get your ex want you again is to > hit on her best friend, her sister, a really close > friend’s of hers. Also make sure you pick opposite > traits of ex (i.e. if your ex gf thinks she too > fat then hit on a skinny girl if she had long hair > pick a girl with short hair). She’s gonna think > that you never cared about her. > > Its not that she wants you, she just wants to be > wanted by you.
BiPolarBoyBoston Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > KarenC, your right I am single. > > I only play games if girls play games with me > first. If there are no games I’m actually one of > the nicest guys you ever will meet. I try to be > completey honest when I first meet a girl and will > totally respect a girl physically and mentally. > > But lets be honest some girls toy with guys all > the time, why can’t I do the same to them? +1 To echo everyone else here the answer is no. If she needs financial support then she should turn to her family and close friends. A real relationship is not predicated on financial attachment. I have never dated anyone that didn’t have a good head on her shoulders and was financially responsible / independent.
BiPolarBoyBoston Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > But lets be honest some girls toy with guys all > the time, why can’t I do the same to them? SOME is the wrong word here BiPolarBoyBoston, maybe not if you get some village belle. But in the city(& suburbs around it), just forget it. Biatches will shove you up your own arse, wont even feel sorry, and you wont even know it till its all done. Look at NeedHelp, he got shoved, didnt he? JohntheLimoDriver - Agreed, Irish +1
surveyinn Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > BiPolarBoyBoston Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > > But lets be honest some girls toy with guys all > > the time, why can’t I do the same to them? > > > SOME is the wrong word here BiPolarBoyBoston, > maybe not if you get some village belle. But in > the city(& suburbs around it), just forget it. > Biatches will shove you up your own arse, wont > even feel sorry, and you wont even know it till > its all done. Look at NeedHelp, he got shoved, > didnt he? > > JohntheLimoDriver - Agreed, Irish +1 yeah you donno you are getting shoved when its being done to ya
BiPolarBoyBoston Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > KarenC, your right I am single. > > I only play games if girls play games with me > first. If there are no games I’m actually one of > the nicest guys you ever will meet. I try to be > completey honest when I first meet a girl and will > totally respect a girl physically and mentally. > > But lets be honest some girls toy with guys all > the time, why can’t I do the same to them? +1 Well put.
I don’t know what kind of crowd you hang out with but most of the girls in Boston I meet are actually pretty nice (think accountants/engineers/pharm/biology people). A lot of girls are too nice and I know i’m going to feel like an ahole if I try to sleep with them so I rather be friends. My general rule of thumb is that asian girls have more of a head on their shoulders and wont try to use you for money. Any girl that either needs lots of attention or have stuff (clothes, cars, apartments) to make them feel better about themselves is a time bomb waiting to happen. surveyinn Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > BiPolarBoyBoston Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > > But lets be honest some girls toy with guys all > > the time, why can’t I do the same to them? > > > SOME is the wrong word here BiPolarBoyBoston, > maybe not if you get some village belle. But in > the city(& suburbs around it), just forget it. > Biatches will shove you up your own arse, wont > even feel sorry, and you wont even know it till > its all done. Look at NeedHelp, he got shoved, > didnt he? > > JohntheLimoDriver - Agreed, Irish +1
Do you just want to be just “some guy” who defends their actions based on “some girls”? Why not enjoy being someone with integrity? The best antidote is to sense when you are with “some girl” who is playing you, and spit them out the moment she shows the signs of being “one of them.” It usually doesn’t take too long. Meanwhile, you are decent to people who are decent to you.
“no she is not hot in the conventional sense. but we were very compatible sexually.” best justification for dating an ugo i’ve heard in some time.
Thread of the week…
CFA_Halifax Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Thread of the week… hopefully it doesn’t get n-u-k-e-d
Don’t mention the “n” word he could be listening… even if this does get nuked we still have the new ananda thread courtesy of abdullasm.
Needhelp, are you doing ok financially? How is your job security? How bad was the break-up? If you guys are still semi-friendly with each other then I would give her enough money so she can survive for a few months but don’t expect it to be paid back. Don’t call her, don’t drop by, don’t expect any sex, and make sure she understand this is all that you will give her. If she is a decent human being then she’ll pay you back when she’s on her feet again so nothing gained or lost. Knowing somebody might be homeless is a pretty in-human revenage.
BiPolarBoyBoston Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Needhelp, are you doing ok financially? How is > your job security? How bad was the break-up? > > If you guys are still semi-friendly with each > other then I would give her enough money so she > can survive for a few months but don’t expect it > to be paid back. > > Don’t call her, don’t drop by, don’t expect any > sex, and make sure she understand this is all that > you will give her. If she is a decent human being > then she’ll pay you back when she’s on her feet > again so nothing gained or lost. Knowing somebody > might be homeless is a pretty in-human revenage. i am doing very well at my job. money wise am doing nicely. Break up was real bad because i was blindsided and that too when i was just starting studying for L3. i dont know how i found the courage and motivation to pass L3 and got my credentials last year. when i was studying for the exam i heard that she went to paris with some other guy for vacation - we had planned this vacation for us. she also made a point of announcing her house purchase and how she threw a party for everyone at her new house. i dont think she deserves revenge. revenge means i still care. and even though i do care at some level, i am trying hard to pretend and convince myself i dont care not no more.
BiPolarBoyBoston Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Needhelp, are you doing ok financially? How is > your job security? How bad was the break-up? > > If you guys are still semi-friendly with each > other then I would give her enough money so she > can survive for a few months but don’t expect it > to be paid back. > > Don’t call her, don’t drop by, don’t expect any > sex, and make sure she understand this is all that > you will give her. If she is a decent human being > then she’ll pay you back when she’s on her feet > again so nothing gained or lost. Knowing somebody > might be homeless is a pretty in-human revenage. I don’t think she’s lost her job. I think she was worried about it and may be trying to squirm her way back in with needhelp, just in case she does lose her job.
Needhelp, congrats on passing btw! Sounds like she might of have been cheating on you. Not wanting to have kids and breaking up is one thing but cheating is totally different. Is she fiscally responsible? Would she just blow the money away on shoes? If so then you shouldn’t help. Otherwise I would loan her money if needed, but maybe take collaterial/arrange a payback agreement. Keep your emotions away from the help.