Muddahudda Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Don’t give her the money. Don’t go back for some > loving either. You come over as the sensitive type > and I have the impression you might get caught up > in it all again. You represent security to her but > she could happily leave you for a better offer. > Move on, circulate, find someone new. Find a few > new ones. Be prepared to crash and burn, the > practice is good. It will prepare you for the next > time better. There could well be a next time when > you have similar circumstances. Be willing to > laugh at your screw ups, don’t take it too hard. > Don’t lose your sensitive side, you will create a > lot of good girlfriends along the way, If this was > your first big love, then it is hard but then > almost everyone has been there. I was once the shy > type, but not so much any more. I’m in contact > with a handful of ex gfs who email me now from > over 10 years ago. And funny enough, I just got a > phone call from an ex gf calling from Singapore > this very morning. It took a bit of explaining to > my new gf did that… > > Just don’t give her any money. Well said. of course i’m converting this to the female version. hehehe
Muddahudda Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Don’t give her the money. Don’t go back for some > loving either. You come over as the sensitive type > and I have the impression you might get caught up > in it all again. You represent security to her but > she could happily leave you for a better offer. > Move on, circulate, find someone new. Find a few > new ones. Be prepared to crash and burn, the > practice is good. It will prepare you for the next > time better. There could well be a next time when > you have similar circumstances. Be willing to > laugh at your screw ups, don’t take it too hard. > Don’t lose your sensitive side, you will create a > lot of good girlfriends along the way, If this was > your first big love, then it is hard but then > almost everyone has been there. I was once the shy > type, but not so much any more. I’m in contact > with a handful of ex gfs who email me now from > over 10 years ago. And funny enough, I just got a > phone call from an ex gf calling from Singapore > this very morning. It took a bit of explaining to > my new gf did that… > > Just don’t give her any money. sound advice. it wasnt my first big love. But what hurts me is the way i got played. i cant get over the fact that i got played big time. its not love. its more about ego.
The most important thing in a relationship, and possibly the most important thing in life, is having the Upper Hand. I mean this particularly in the post-break up sense. There is nothing quite as satisfying as knowing that your ex is doing worse than you are, and not just in the relationship “does he/she still think about me” sense, but in all of life.
^Are you male/mid twenties by any chance?
more like burned badly and haven’t gotten over it yet…
Please. The only time I’ve been burned is when I pee.
“^Are you male/mid twenties by any chance?” Isn’t everyone here?
Mr. Pink Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Please. The only time I’ve been burned is when I > pee. you should probably go to the doctore to get that checked out. can’t be a good thing and not sure you want that info shared…
Mr. Pink Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Please. The only time I’ve been burned is when I > pee. LOL…man this sounds exactly like me until i got my @ss kicked. blondes will ruin your life :)…temporarily…till you find another. Perfect response tho…ha
Turkish Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > “^Are you male/mid twenties by any chance?” > > Isn’t everyone here? Apparently there’s a good few female mid twenties here now!
needhelp Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > trampled on his emotions Men have emotions? : / Dood don’t do it, it is a trick.
“Apparently there’s a good few female mid twenties here now!” Enough with the act KarenC…you’re a dude.
Yeah Turkish - I really sound like a lad don’t I … ask John if I’m a lad!
You probably are John, so what would be the point of that?
Yeah cos I tell everyone to strip down to the underwear all the time!
If she’s a dude she is one good looking but feminine-looking dude, but I need a body pic to confirm for sure.
pic or you are a dude
KarenC Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Turkish - grow up! > > Numi - ok but you still said “playing the “game” > is a means of finding out whether a girl is really > worth my time” > > Needhelp - don’t her take you for a ride, tell her > to get over herself and get a nice girl Don’t ever grow up, Turkish. Needhelp, is this the girl that dumped you because you left town and her psychic told her to dump you? Cause, if so, 'nough said.
Alright sublimity send me a mail and i’ll reply with a pic!
wtf, I thought you said I was the only who gets a pic. Busted.