Hey KarenC I’d like to formally invite you to join us former (and current) AF Posters at fnaag.com/forum. You’d make at least one post for me wouldn’t you sugar?
Not domesticated enough for that kinda behaviour! Irish girls don’t settle down too easily! 
You’re Irish? Sorry, it wouldn’t work.
Turkish Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > “I don’t believe in sabotage or creating a sense > of insecurity or jealousy” > > But this is exactly what it says to do in “The > Game”. Neil Strauss is a genius, no? Well, I didn’t read most of The Game so if it did say that, I would disagree. Plus, I think so much of it depends on what kind of person you are – I always thought that “The Game” was written for the Average Joe. The author by his own admission wasn’t particularly experienced with women, and I can respect that. It certainly adds to his credibility and no doubt he is a good marketer. However, given that so many guys and girls have read his book, I’d think that so much of it has become common knowledge that it’s almost overplayed – even plebeian, if you will. But hey, if every Average Joe out there is pulling this stuff, then that’s all the more reason for someone to dare to be different. All I’m saying is that I can’t tell you how many guys I’ve seen pull some silly line and have a girl instantly call him out on that. Can’t blame the girl, either. KarenC Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > > Numi - ok but you still said “playing the “game” > is a means of finding out whether a girl is really > worth my time” Oh, don’t worry Karen, you’ve cleared the first bar already. But really, I wasn’t trying to make a profound observation of any kind – I meant what I said pretty literally. And what I meant is that most guys (and most girls, I’d assume) have certain things they look for off the bat, in order to spark a sense of attraction. I don’t want to use the term “the game” anymore because it obviously takes on different meanings for different people. What I specifically mean is that there are certain things I say or do to find out if a girl is my type. If she isn’t, I just move on because I’m a busy person.
“But hey, if every Average Joe out there is pulling this stuff, then that’s all the more reason for me to dare to be different.” Agree with that. I think it was written for below the average joe, guys who generally had absolutely no chance. I have too much respect for Joe 6-pack to say “The Game” was written for him. Joe 6-pack has game.
Needhelp, i bet your going to give money to her because you never got closure on this.
“Needhelp, i bet your going to give money to her because you never got closure on this.” Closure is important, look at Nic Cage in Family Man…he had it all…or did he?
“she’s a dime store h**ker and she always will be”
ha you got it wrong bro. i aint giving nobody no money. and i think i have a 95% closure. you can never have complete closure or life would cease to exist.
Numi - I understand what you mean now and completely agree, no point in wasting your time with someone you have nothing in common with or if they are not what you are looking for… I’ve cleared the first bar, what’s the next one?
“you can never have complete closure or life would cease to exist.” profound…take the red pill.
theblackman Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Hey KarenC I’d like to formally invite you to join > us former (and current) AF Posters at > fnaag.com/forum. > > You’d make at least one post for me wouldn’t you > sugar? Only saw this now…what’s fnaag.com??
ding a dong dong
get all chris brown on tha bleytch
That’s going too far!
KarenC Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > That’s going too far! shorties love the thuggin lovin’ as fr the game, i think its pretty weak, most women are pretty insecure as is there is no need to make it worse, you don’t want to be dating a headcase, trust me. if youre even mildly perceptive and can come off as confident/cocky with a sense of humour you should be fine.
Where are you from?
KarenC Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Where are you from? me? vancouver
I work in finance… most people think I am broke … I see most of my friends gf leaving them
Don’t give her the money. Don’t go back for some loving either. You come over as the sensitive type and I have the impression you might get caught up in it all again. You represent security to her but she could happily leave you for a better offer. Move on, circulate, find someone new. Find a few new ones. Be prepared to crash and burn, the practice is good. It will prepare you for the next time better. There could well be a next time when you have similar circumstances. Be willing to laugh at your screw ups, don’t take it too hard. Don’t lose your sensitive side, you will create a lot of good girlfriends along the way, If this was your first big love, then it is hard but then almost everyone has been there. I was once the shy type, but not so much any more. I’m in contact with a handful of ex gfs who email me now from over 10 years ago. And funny enough, I just got a phone call from an ex gf calling from Singapore this very morning. It took a bit of explaining to my new gf did that… Just don’t give her any money.