So I tried to get some from the wife yesterday. Basically, I wanted some, and she said that she would come to bed soon. So I went to bed at 10:00. She came to bed at 2:30, some 4.5 hours later.
When I complained about it, she said, “Well, I drank a couple of cups of coffee around 6:00 p.m., so I wasn’t sleepy. That’s why didn’t come to bed.”
I thought about that for a while. Then I realized the gravity of the situation. She turned me down because she was awake. Not because she had a headache, or because she was tired, or because it was shark week, but because she was awake.
Now, I’ve been turned down a lot for a lot of different reasons by a lot of different women. But this was a first. She basically told me that she didn’t want to fck because she was awake.
Whats the big deal? She probably just wasn’t feeling it last night. The WC community will support you and provide invaluable advice if this becomes a trend. Keep us posted.
met a hot girl. very caring. she’ll be a good mom. low maintenance.
anyways i feel 30 is still too young to get married, i was hoping mid 30s, but i figure fack it. shes really nice. she deserves a nice life. i’ve changed a lot. in terms of my actions but my philosophy is still the same.
like my friends went to tj. and instead of going with them, i just hung with her. and showed her photos of the brothels on yelp. and shared with her stuff i read on reddit and everything i knew about brothels.
12 years. So getting rejected is actually more common than getting some.
It wasn’t the rejection that surprised me. It was the reason. “I couldn’t fck because I was wide awake.” That was a new one.
I understand the “I have a headache” or “I’ve got a gyno appointment tomorrow” or “I’m on the rag” or “I’m tired” or any of the other millions of excuses that women have for not surrendering the booty. But “I was awake” is new on my list.
I think you’re trying to read to much into her reasoning. People give BS reasons for a variety of reasons and usually, they are not even aware of how BS their answer is. Our brain works in weird ways.
Practice makes perfect. My wife and I engage in healthy, ferocious love making every day, no matter how tired or dirty we are. I don’t want to discuss this much further since I do not want to give intimate details of my marriage to the bawdy readership here. Sorry to disappoint you.
some women play coy. hug them kiss them massage them finger them to test the waters and once you have caused a breach. unsheathe your sword and charge.