A lot of this is age dependent. Once women learn to get better at sniffing out the a$$holes, more thoughtful guys suddenly find they’ve struck gold.
sensitive = asking before busting a nut on her face
shy = not getting a chance to score
FT or mr smart have never been to East Asia. I’ve seen straight trolls with dimes on their arms.
StallionDis has never heard of Bateman’s principle or Briffault’s law.
This doesn’t surprise me at all, but it is still interesting. It’s one of the more frustrating things about the fairer sex.
That it’s unfair?
Knowing what I know now, if I were to come back to life as a hot chick (8+), I’d be a complete slut. Because I could.
^And I’d want to experience multiple orgasms. I think that would be fun.
I’m actually surprised you know who Fonzie is, you must be ancient.
I’m 32. I guess it depends on perspective.
And yes I suspect a lot of guys who hooked up with a 21 year old who’se been with 20 + guys will be insecure not because of inexperience but because they couldn’t do any better than land a batshit crazy chick who has no idea how to make a stable relationship work. She’s experienced? In what exactly? Taking it up the anus?
More just very comfortable with her sexuality. I don’t really believe in calling people sluts, unless they’re cheaters. She was hot and guys wanted to have sex with her. Big deal. “Slut shaming” is basically people wanting to control somebody else’s sex life, which is really none of their business. In my view, you only get so many trips around the sun so if you want to have a lot of sex then go for it. Her current husband of 8 years and 3 children seem to think she knows how to make a relationship work.
She and I are not on spreaking terms, but that’s mostly because I broke up with her before she went on study abroad for a year and she took it badly. It was obvoiusly the sensible thing to do (LT relationship in college is not going to work for me), but feelings don’t care about sense.

Ghibli:
bchad:
Your analysis doesn’t make sense, FT (admittedly, this criticism also applies to my original analysis). Yes, there will be some with extraordinarily high numbers, but the average will be dragged down by the number of Demi-virgins they displace. For each heterosexual pairing, there’s a man and a woman. If the population of men and women are about the same, the averages should be the same, since we are not measuring number of sex acts, but instead, number of unique partners. For every new unique partner a man has, it means a woman has also gotten a new unique partner. If the number of men is the same as the number of women (assuming 50:50 M:F split), then the average number of unique partners must be the same, no matter how skewed the distribution.
The possibility of threesomes might skew this, except for the fact that there are generally more MMF threesomes in practice than FFM.
A simpler explanation is simply, “lying.” Men inflate the number they say they’ve slept with, and women deflate it.
FT has hit on this in the past and he is spot on. The variation and skew of unique sexual partners is much greater for men than women. Well documented. The top of the heap as had sex with your wives and girlfriends. I’m good friends with a true 1% in the mating game. He went five for five on one vacation, five nights, five different women. Two of the women were engaged twenty somethings, both attorneys from Scottsdale. Definitely 8s or better physically. Be happy they don’t share their number. You don’t want to know. As far as the 1%er, he’s married now with three kids. Has not strayed as far as I know. Judge all you want. His single years were better than yours. And it seems his memories will sustain him. Yours won’t.
I see it all the time. Like I’ve previously said, I can go out with 10 buddies to several social functions: wedding, library, outdoor festival, sporting event, groceries, bar, concert, etc. The same 2 guys will hook up regardless of the M:F ratio at these events. The bottom 6 won’t get anything even if there were 5 times more women. The 3rd and 4th guy can get lucky if everything falls into place.
I knew 2 bouncers growing up. They both told me similar things. One said 10% of guys pick up every night and it’s usually the same ones from week to week. He never understood why most of the rest even show up, week after week, year after year and go home empty handed everytime. The second bouncer told me 15%.
I was talking to a trainer at my gym last week. He’s been working there for 12 years now. He told me during the last 12 years, he has seen the same 5 or 6 guys pickup his female coworkers (receptionists, trainers, nutritionists, staff managers), especially the receptionists where turnover is so high. He tells me these women get hit on every week by over one hundred guys yet it’s the same ones that pick them up. The guy that slept with the nutritionist in 2004, also did a trainer in 2007 and another one in 2010 and will most likely be the one to do the new college student receptionist they plan to hire next month. The other 95 guys will use their clever lines found in PUA material and think they’re getting somewhere.
I’ve said this countless times, the best place to meet women is at the gym. It’s very simple, you say my name is (preferably an italian name but work with what you’ve been given haha), and i hope this isnt too forward but Id like to take you out tonight. Now, to make things transparanent, most of these have led to relationships for me but if you’re the kind of person to move on quick, i think this will work for you too. In fact, there is a new greeter/trainer (not sure her actual title). I’ll do this tonight.
I don’t necessarily buy into the statement that a few men clean up whereas the others do not. So long as you take care of your body, are confident with your approach, and are sincere (meaning you are willing to put in the time), you should be able to land a date, and perhaps more. The final thing i want to mention is true dimes (both with looks and character) are not going to put out on the first date.
I hope the CFA Institute sanctions everyone in this thread because it’s stupid enough to bring shame upon the letters.

former_trader:
Ghibli:
bchad:
Your analysis doesn’t make sense, FT (admittedly, this criticism also applies to my original analysis). Yes, there will be some with extraordinarily high numbers, but the average will be dragged down by the number of Demi-virgins they displace. For each heterosexual pairing, there’s a man and a woman. If the population of men and women are about the same, the averages should be the same, since we are not measuring number of sex acts, but instead, number of unique partners. For every new unique partner a man has, it means a woman has also gotten a new unique partner. If the number of men is the same as the number of women (assuming 50:50 M:F split), then the average number of unique partners must be the same, no matter how skewed the distribution.
The possibility of threesomes might skew this, except for the fact that there are generally more MMF threesomes in practice than FFM.
A simpler explanation is simply, “lying.” Men inflate the number they say they’ve slept with, and women deflate it.
FT has hit on this in the past and he is spot on. The variation and skew of unique sexual partners is much greater for men than women. Well documented. The top of the heap as had sex with your wives and girlfriends. I’m good friends with a true 1% in the mating game. He went five for five on one vacation, five nights, five different women. Two of the women were engaged twenty somethings, both attorneys from Scottsdale. Definitely 8s or better physically. Be happy they don’t share their number. You don’t want to know. As far as the 1%er, he’s married now with three kids. Has not strayed as far as I know. Judge all you want. His single years were better than yours. And it seems his memories will sustain him. Yours won’t.
I see it all the time. Like I’ve previously said, I can go out with 10 buddies to several social functions: wedding, library, outdoor festival, sporting event, groceries, bar, concert, etc. The same 2 guys will hook up regardless of the M:F ratio at these events. The bottom 6 won’t get anything even if there were 5 times more women. The 3rd and 4th guy can get lucky if everything falls into place.
I knew 2 bouncers growing up. They both told me similar things. One said 10% of guys pick up every night and it’s usually the same ones from week to week. He never understood why most of the rest even show up, week after week, year after year and go home empty handed everytime. The second bouncer told me 15%.
I was talking to a trainer at my gym last week. He’s been working there for 12 years now. He told me during the last 12 years, he has seen the same 5 or 6 guys pickup his female coworkers (receptionists, trainers, nutritionists, staff managers), especially the receptionists where turnover is so high. He tells me these women get hit on every week by over one hundred guys yet it’s the same ones that pick them up. The guy that slept with the nutritionist in 2004, also did a trainer in 2007 and another one in 2010 and will most likely be the one to do the new college student receptionist they plan to hire next month. The other 95 guys will use their clever lines found in PUA material and think they’re getting somewhere.
I’ve said this countless times, the best place to meet women is at the gym. It’s very simple, you say my name is (preferably an italian name but work with what you’ve been given haha), and i hope this isnt too forward but Id like to take you out tonight. Now, to make things transparanent, most of these have led to relationships for me but if you’re the kind of person to move on quick, i think this will work for you too. In fact, there is a new greeter/trainer (not sure her actual title). I’ll do this tonight.
I don’t necessarily buy into the statement that a few men clean up whereas the others do not. So long as you take care of your body, are confident with your approach, and are sincere (meaning you are willing to put in the time), you should be able to land a date, and perhaps more. The final thing i want to mention is true dimes (both with looks and character) are not going to put out on the first date.
is the key to ask her before, during, or after the workout?
isildurrr:I’m actually surprised you know who Fonzie is, you must be ancient.
I’m 32. I guess it depends on perspective.
Positively ancient ;).
I also find it interesting that you are so blase about the possibly the most intimate activity between the opposite sexes and are almost patting yourself on the back while talking about ‘slut shaming’ when in fact none of that is going on, just different people expressing their own personal moral compasses. But of course they must be inexperienced compared to our very own resident Don Juan eh?
Glad for the girl in question, good to see it all worked out, may all the stars shine for her. Question still remains is a girl switching lovers every 3 months between the age of 15-20 and then going on to have a happy stable marriage the norm or the exception?
^^^Agreed (with inkybinky). With a few notable exceptions, this thread sounds like it fits into a high-school drama.
“OMG–how can you possibly go out with that slut. She’s banged, like, four guys already.”
“I found out this girl I barely know got naked once. I don’t know if I can look at her the same anymore.”
“Hey everyone! Let’s gang up on the only girl that ever bothers to post here, and be as offensive as possible!!!”
“Wow. Your girlfriend’s a slut. That makes you insecure, and the only girl you can get is the batshit crazy girl with daddy issues.”
“So, a girl started to give me a handy once, but then she stopped. That still counts as getting some, right?”
^ lmao!

whatsyourgovt:
former_trader:
Ghibli:
bchad:
Your analysis doesn’t make sense, FT (admittedly, this criticism also applies to my original analysis). Yes, there will be some with extraordinarily high numbers, but the average will be dragged down by the number of Demi-virgins they displace. For each heterosexual pairing, there’s a man and a woman. If the population of men and women are about the same, the averages should be the same, since we are not measuring number of sex acts, but instead, number of unique partners. For every new unique partner a man has, it means a woman has also gotten a new unique partner. If the number of men is the same as the number of women (assuming 50:50 M:F split), then the average number of unique partners must be the same, no matter how skewed the distribution.
The possibility of threesomes might skew this, except for the fact that there are generally more MMF threesomes in practice than FFM.
A simpler explanation is simply, “lying.” Men inflate the number they say they’ve slept with, and women deflate it.
FT has hit on this in the past and he is spot on. The variation and skew of unique sexual partners is much greater for men than women. Well documented. The top of the heap as had sex with your wives and girlfriends. I’m good friends with a true 1% in the mating game. He went five for five on one vacation, five nights, five different women. Two of the women were engaged twenty somethings, both attorneys from Scottsdale. Definitely 8s or better physically. Be happy they don’t share their number. You don’t want to know. As far as the 1%er, he’s married now with three kids. Has not strayed as far as I know. Judge all you want. His single years were better than yours. And it seems his memories will sustain him. Yours won’t.
I see it all the time. Like I’ve previously said, I can go out with 10 buddies to several social functions: wedding, library, outdoor festival, sporting event, groceries, bar, concert, etc. The same 2 guys will hook up regardless of the M:F ratio at these events. The bottom 6 won’t get anything even if there were 5 times more women. The 3rd and 4th guy can get lucky if everything falls into place.
I knew 2 bouncers growing up. They both told me similar things. One said 10% of guys pick up every night and it’s usually the same ones from week to week. He never understood why most of the rest even show up, week after week, year after year and go home empty handed everytime. The second bouncer told me 15%.
I was talking to a trainer at my gym last week. He’s been working there for 12 years now. He told me during the last 12 years, he has seen the same 5 or 6 guys pickup his female coworkers (receptionists, trainers, nutritionists, staff managers), especially the receptionists where turnover is so high. He tells me these women get hit on every week by over one hundred guys yet it’s the same ones that pick them up. The guy that slept with the nutritionist in 2004, also did a trainer in 2007 and another one in 2010 and will most likely be the one to do the new college student receptionist they plan to hire next month. The other 95 guys will use their clever lines found in PUA material and think they’re getting somewhere.
I’ve said this countless times, the best place to meet women is at the gym. It’s very simple, you say my name is (preferably an italian name but work with what you’ve been given haha), and i hope this isnt too forward but Id like to take you out tonight. Now, to make things transparanent, most of these have led to relationships for me but if you’re the kind of person to move on quick, i think this will work for you too. In fact, there is a new greeter/trainer (not sure her actual title). I’ll do this tonight.
I don’t necessarily buy into the statement that a few men clean up whereas the others do not. So long as you take care of your body, are confident with your approach, and are sincere (meaning you are willing to put in the time), you should be able to land a date, and perhaps more. The final thing i want to mention is true dimes (both with looks and character) are not going to put out on the first date.
is the key to ask her before, during, or after the workout?
Always after, and this means after static stretching. To me, when i step into training, the workout takes precedence.
How’s the training going? you get accustomed to 15 minutes nonstop jump ropping yet? Have you gone insane from the MT music or have you learned to feed off the music?
I also find it interesting that you are so blase about the possibly the most intimate activity between the opposite sexes and are almost patting yourself on the back while talking about ‘slut shaming’ when in fact none of that is going on, just different people expressing their own personal moral compasses.
Sex does not equal intimacy. For example, there is no such thing as instant intimacy but there are tons of one night stands. One night stands are not “intimate” IMO.
I am not patting myself on the back. Rather I am trying to understand how you could say that because a woman has had sex with 20 or 30 people she is a “batshit crazy chick who has no idea how to make a stable relationship work” and not consider that slut shaming. Anyway, Mark Twain once said “Don’t argue with a fool; onlookers may not be able to tell the difference.” Over and out.
I cant wait to just get married and not have to deal with this sh!t
BWYF is the truth.
No one ever answered to my question earlier though: Is there a number where they haven’t had enough experience for you? This will probably be highly dependent on age, but would anyone actually want to date a virgin beside isuldurr?

I cant wait to just get married and not have to deal with this sh!t
but then u wont get any sex