All of the above. Women convince themselves and get convinced by peer pressure that they can do (should be doing) casual. The trick is to realize it’s an illusion before too much damage is done.
35-45 guys? Jesus, does ANYBODY have that much sex by the time they’re 25? I only know of one person who (claims) to be higher than that. Said he got 50 chicks second semester of freshman (or sophomore) year, and was currently at just over 100. A lot of corroborating testimony though, so I believe him. Especially because he has NO standards. He was probably 21 or 22 at that time. But other than that, I don’t know anyone that’s over, say 15.
yeah, you’re just hanging out with the wrong crowd. Career orientated A types are to invested in their future to put that much energy into getting laid. It’s the impulsive/low self esteeem/ emotionally unstable types who tend to have the most sexual partners.
Hang out with ravers and hedonists and you’ll get your numbers up to that level easily.
Drago, we need to take back this thread. Where the hell is this crap coming from? Do high school kids in the US have their summer vacation now? I can’t believe this shit. An abomination to the noble cause of NoFap!
With these websites these days you can easily get 50 in one year if you want. Just sign up for all them and send out a million e-mails. I think that 35-45 is a lot, but greater then 15 is not high if you just don’t f who it’s with.
Depends on how old and how much time they spent single. Some girls I’ve been friends with since high school that have never been married and are now in their early 30’s; they’re easily >30. And, that’s not really that bad. If you do the math that’s like 2-3 guys a year. Hardly sleeping around.
The true test is how they did in college. If they get out of college still in the single digits she’s a keeper.
ha ha…i read somewhere that only a small minority of college people are the one’s sleeping around and the rest still follow the traditional dating patterns.
i mean i would expect sorority girls etc to rack up numbers pretty fast but surely there are some ‘normal’ one’s out there.
A lot of girls in college will do everything but sleep with you to keep their heavenly # down. Still sluts imo but at least they can claim they have only slept with x number of people.
If you lower your standards and sleep with a <5 but don’t tell anyone, did it happen? (For the international AFers, this is the age old question of if a tree falls in the woods but no one hears it analogy)