I’m just kidding around a bit. I used to be attracted to HM women, and if they were hot, then I would try to put up with the HM part as long as I could. Then I started seeing a shrink and started to understand why I was unusually attracted to that, and have since learned to enjoy relationships with non-HM women that have been great (and without sacrificing attraction). I should have figured that out a lot earlier!
Even before I saw a shrink, though, the long-term relationships weren’t super high mantenance; the truly HM relationships were never able to last all that long.
I’ve dated 2 in my life (well one was Ukrainian, but had similar personality) and I think I’ve lost 5 years of life expectancy for every month of dating. Not sure the lows were worth the highs after a few weeks. But definitely an attractive population.
Exactly. Relationships require a lot of work as is. Who has the energy for high maintenance non-sense? But some guys are attracted to hm girls. Maybe it is some sort of achievent in their eyes to be able to get that kind of girl? It was always a puzzle to me…
I’ve had a large sample of Russian women ( >30) they are not high maintenance. They just are into you doing typical masculine things like: a) heavy lifting b) pulling out her chair c) holding the door d) picking up the dinner tab.
If you can do these relatively simple things she will reward you with the best sex of your life. If you fail to do those things she will be confused and lash out inappropriately as any confused she-beast would.
American chicks on the other hand will come at you with the sex appeal of Rosie O’donnel and expect you to want to only have sex with them for the rest of your life. When god forbird, you’ve worked hard enough and long enough, to afford and keep a high quality mistress your American wife will use this info to divorce you and take your money.
Marriage in America is betting a chick with 28 percent body fat 50 percent of your money that you will love her forever. I’ll take the “high maintenance” russian any day.
Just wanted to see if our definitions of HM differ…
Funny, I blame Russian women for spoiling Russian men by cater to their every little need… Just looking at my parents generation… The men think they are heroes just by working full-time…
American men are much more self-reliant and don’t require hovering over as much, IME.
I more or less agree with this assessment. Although I’m pretty up on Brazilians too. On average, I find Russians smarter, which is definitely a turn on for me, but I find Brazilians sweeter and connect better emotionally. But if all you care about is sex, then either one is wonderful, provided that you do the symbolic stuff you are supposed to do as a gentleman, and why wouldn’t you want to do that.