I should head down that way. This nice weather is like crack to me. I just never want to stay indoors. What started out as a patio happy hour turned into an all out night on the town.
slip the jab and shoot the leg. On a completely different note, navy seals training stands no chance against stand up in a fist fight so you should have no problem. I’ve trained mma for many years and I’m pretty sure fights that take place are usually with untrained people. Most of the fighters i train with never get into fights outside the gym just because we all understand the consequences (injuries, jail time, ect) plus you build a sense of confidence in which you have no reason to show off.
Honestly speaking, you earned your charter, are in shape, and hold a job - just find another girl. This girl must be a dime piece for all the troubles.
Wow. You’re out of pocket for one day and look at what you miss.
My .02 - Trust me on this–military guys see things a little differently than “normal” guys. Now, if the ex-Seal has been out of the Navy long enough to revert back to normal, then that’s a different story. But IMHO–most military dudes don’t have a problem with bros banging their exes if it’s over.
Plus, (and I’m surprised nobody has brought this up), have you talked to Kayak Girl about it? Maybe she wants it to continue. And if she does, then just try to keep it a secret from ex-Seal as long as you can. Then, depending on what happens, you can drop subtle hints like, “Me and Kayak Girl are going to the bar tonight.” You’ll be able to judge his reaction.
Plus, as time goes by, he’s a lot less likely to care about it. If my girl and I broke up on Friday and you boned her on Saturday and I found out on Sunday, that’s likely to warrant a punch in the face. If we broke up in October, you bone her in May, and I find out in December, that probably warrants a shrug.
Update is business as usual, we’re meeting up mon or tues prolly to hang out. Things seem good and I don’t see any problem. Sticking to the plan we hashed out. I just couldn’t justify posting a pic. I’ve known her for like a year, would just not be nice.
What you did is a dick move. Why mess with your good/best friends ex-gf in the first place? Why are you even talking to her still? You better tell your buddy first before his ex does and deal with the consequences ie. no longer a friend or punch to the face.
Nah, it’s cool. I’m not saying sh*t because after some thought I don’t view it as relevant or really any of his business. If it comes up, he can deal with it or grow up. It’s funny, I hear this “punched in the face” thing being thrown around a lot for a buncha CFA candidates that have likely never been in a real fight in their lives.
In order to be fair, a punch in the face because you were a jerk is hardly a *real* fight. One punch to prove that you’re an a-hole does not a fight make. If you take the punch, then that’s the end of it.
Now, if you punch back, then it becomes a fight, because I’ll be damned if I’m going to punch you for banging my girlfriend and let you punch me back. Or if I keep going after the first punch, then it’s a fight, and I would expect you to fight back.
EDIT - For the record, I don’t think you did anything wrong. It’s not like he was your best friend since the third grade or anything. You weren’t the best man at their wedding, were you?