Contrary to what you’ll see in tv shows & movies, developed nations are having less sex. Nothing new to this forum but the possible reasons are linked to porn, social media, more hours worked, and as PA notably pointed out, unhappiness.
I was hoping PA would chime in w his normal rhetoric that the unhappiness is stemming from the demasculinization of men and the feminist movement of women. On the latter, women feel sexy when they are desired and men gain libido from power. As both fade, so goes the appetite.
^ top 5% bang 95% of the time on these apps. Everyone is holding out for better without being self aware enough to lower their standards. A lot of the population is unfcukable anyway…those are the ones responding to these surveys. The other ones are bangin. We’re a lot more exposed to the creme of the crop these days - a lot more than ever before in history. You couldn’t whip out your phone any swipe through a city’s population worth of people to find someone to bang…you’d bang Martha next door because she’s there and she’s down.
There is also a disconnect of wants between the sexes. Most women do want relationships (or more commitment) and dudes just want to hook up. Millennial are having less sex because, to be honest, it’s not very appealing with the way its portrayed in media. Think of all the movies where the sex is crap, someone gets an std or pregnant and all the chaos that ensues. I’m sure it has a psychological effect on the desire to have sex, especially coupled with the lack of education on how to actually enjoy the act itself.
Put your phone down, learn to talk to people and be present. Learn to flirt, enjoy yourself, show interest and you’d be surprised how much sex you can get (if that’s what you want of course).
I believe the advent of mobile dating is a part of the issue, but not the core issue. The core issue is that as the internet becomes woven into modern life we simply have far more vying for our attention than ever before. Sex becomes too difficult when the there is a world of entertainment a click away.