krnyc2008:
former_trader:
A wiseman once said that on average a woman mentally dumps a guy 6 months before she actually verbally tells him it’s over. Not saying it’s the case here as I have no idea about the relationship between the OP and his wife but I’m just throwing out a general statement that more often than not guys are clueless as to the state of their relationship. You have no idea how many times I’ve heard men say they are in a healthy, happy relationship before hearing their wives/gf dumped them a few weeks/months later…and the guy always ends up claiming he didn’t see it coming and how great/generous/loving he was to her.
Men do that too
Most of the time guys don’t break up with their girlfriends. They just become more and more distant until the woman eventually breaks up with him. In the end, most men are cowards.
pokhim
February 8, 2017, 5:00pm
#63
former_trader:
A wiseman once said that on average a woman mentally dumps a guy 6 months before she actually verbally tells him it’s over. Not saying it’s the case here as I have no idea about the relationship between the OP and his wife but I’m just throwing out a general statement that more often than not guys are clueless as to the state of their relationship. You have no idea how many times I’ve heard men say they are in a healthy, happy relationship before hearing their wives/gf dumped them a few weeks/months later…and the guy always ends up claiming he didn’t see it coming and how great/generous/loving he was to her.
But our relationship is a happy one
igor555
February 8, 2017, 5:22pm
#65
if you want to know, ask her friends. they know how she feels about you.
or her mom
^ Why would they tell him? If anything, they’d just tell her he’s suspicious and that she needs to be more discreet with her cheating.
Even if we think we are nice to people, and most importantly even if we legitimately are nice to people, it doesn’t mean that they think we are doing the right things to make them happy.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3XjUFYxSxDk
The really good part starts at 8:30-ish. But don’t skip straight to it. You have to watch all of it.
Theres also a 2-hr version as well.
Edit - yes, it is SFW.
She could be just depressed or needs to see a therapist. It’s not like any unhappy wife is blowing the postman . If OP really does care he should see a professional instead of asking advice from a bunch of horny men .