Im dead serious...

Did he mention girlfirend?? He didn’t even mention a girl, for that matter…

Ahhhh, my no fap game is so tight, twas killing it this weekend. Went home with a girl I met at the bar Sat night but she wouldnt let me smash. We went out on Sun night and she didnt even invite me in. We made out both nights but when a girl makes me stop I feel so rejected. I told her about my no fap, no clue why I always do this when Im drunk.

^probably the rag.

She wants to be serious with you and that’s why she is holding out.

^no this is 2013. it’s the rag.

This may sound counterintuitive but this is good - i had a similar post some where in this massive thread in which the girl held out. Its all about the quality and the reward is that much better when its difficult to achieve. Think about it, you want the girls that dont just fuck anyone, right? I disagree with the rag statement - that barrier is very easy to overcome.

Some women still believe holding out will make the guy be more serious about you.

A little blood shouldn’t dissuade a real man.

On the flip side, maybe she was put off by his nofap story, and was like “Eff this shit, I don’t want to sleep with some two pump chump. I need some good sex.”

Seriously. Women are hornier at that time! Put a towel down, or step in the shower, and get down to business! Plus, it’s right around the time where she’s least likely to get knocked up.

I’ve never understood why it’s such taboo. But then again maybe I’m not considered normal.

Well, I was shitty and I straight up went up to her at the bar and bit her neck… she knew I wasnt messing around. I told her that if I come over she’s going to have to pump the brakes because I’m too atrracted to her to stop (yes, I like to give off the rapist vibe, thank you). She’s def worried that I’m just going trying to hit it and be out. I took her out on Sunday night and I tried to soften up a little to ease those fears, I dunno how she views me, she’s out of town but I’ll call her in a couple days to try to make plans for when she gets back. The body on this one is redonk though.

No wonder the women don’t like me… I’m not doing it right!

What’s the batting average on a move like that?

Wait! Did you know her before? Or you just went up to a strange girl at a bar and bit her on a neck?!?

I would flip out on you. And I am not a neurotic type.

I dunno dude, this stuff works better when the girl is used to 2,000 guys per day trying to make small talk with them and they need a guy w/ balls of steel. She ate it up though and immediately told me I’m her type. She said I’m the most forward guy she’s ever met (Im not, srs). One day I’m gonna just lick a girl accross the face… I havent had the balls to do that yet though.

Not a complete stranger, I met her earlier that day and talked to her for about 2 minutes at a poool party then didnt speak again for like 5 hours when I bit her when we ended up at the same bar. I still dont think she knows my name.

There is no way a guy can tell if a girl that holds out is a good girl.

2 months ago I saw a female acquaintance. I hadn’t seen her in at least 5 years. We hit it off fast and less than 2 hours later she was in my bed. After I pounded her, we started chit chatting. She told me she was dating a guy for over 2 months now (they aren’t officially a couple yet) and has held out because he is “long term” potential. Poor guy thinks he has a keeper. Here he is putting in so much effort and investment into her and all I have to put in is 2 hours of flirting and a few bad jokes.

I started feeling bad for the guy until the chick starting playing with my dick again.

^I had almost the same thing happen to me. Went to catchup with a girl I hadnt seen in years, I learned she is madly in love w/ dude thats gonna be a doctor or something. We had about 4 drinks then I was beat’n cheeks. This girl seems so innocent to, dear god I hope that’s never happened to me.

This girl from sat said she hasnt had sex in 9 months, what say you, water cooler? Truth or not? She’s 32. I think she’s trying to settle down and make sure the guy is serious? She made me food, we made out, then she kicked me out because I was try’n to molest too much. After date 2 we kissed at the front foor for like a minute but she didnt invite me in. Trying to play her cards right?

Women lie about the number of sexual partners they’ve had and the last time they had sex.

This seems very very strange, but I am no specialist in the whole “pick up at the bar” thing :slight_smile:

You see I never said that means she is a good girl:)

I said she wants to be serious in a sense that she wants to lock him for long term.

And yes, girls like the one you met absolutely do exist and there is no way to predict really.

Personally I don’t believe in “holding out” as I consider it playing a game. And I don’t play games.

It’s possible.

And yes, she probably doesn’t want it to be another “f…ck and run”

krnyc, have you ever lied to a guy about the number of sexual partners you’ve had? Be honest.