better options for what?she just isn’t ready to date.
i don’t mind the opinions at all…taking it all on board. running isn’t an option…it’ll either be friends,or more.
She really is a decent chick,has hot friends too…*shrug*
i’d say that the last thing this girl needs at this time is a guy to start playing games with her by bluffing or running plays etc.
she seems to be in a place where she’s struggling to trust men at all. quite rightly considering 1 raped her, 1 shamed her for it and then the guy that was helping her through it all turned out only to be looking to bed her.
The best thing you could do right now is show her that not all guys are complete c**ts by just being a decent guy. she knows you like her so if she keeps up contact with you then just be friends and if more happens, more happens.
also, don’t post pictures of her here. that would be a dickhead move
^
yea,i obv ain’t posting pics.
that’s what i was thinking too,the other guy is head over heels for her…was not just looking to bed her. I mentioned it above,he probably gives her some peace that she requires.
I think you’re right mate.If i was first on the scene i might have had the stomach for it.
2nd…well it would probably be too hard and chances are high it won’t end well. let’s see.I’ll give it a few more hours thought.
she really is a lovely girl…the idea being i would still be looking elsewhere to keep my own sanity intact…but i’m just wondering if there’s any other way to play this hand.
Go look up what it means to “bark up the wrong tree.” It’s basically what just about everyone else here has said.
Wait a second … raped? Who knows what mix of STDs she already has. Run.
The image thing on this site is hard to control.
she’s damaged goods. not sure why you would want that for another longer term.
the only conclusion is you just want the poon, add another notch to your belt, and leave.
Rape her into submission.
I change my vote. This will be a good learning experience for you. Just try to not take it too hard next spring when you find out that eventhough she finally decided to be with you, she was actually boning some other dude too the entire time.
Reminds me of a scenario I was in once. There was this sweet innocent looking girl these other 2 dudes were begging to be with. They were practically drooling at her feet. She told both of them she wanted time to get to know them, didn’t know which she liked better, wanted to take it slow etc… I was boning her the entire time, and she liked it. Lasted a whole year. those poor bastards…
^^^Needs to be removed from thread.
And Isildurr…you’re only 23? By the time you’re 25 you’ll have forgotten about her. Trust me.
But if you’re really concerned that she’ll be “the one that got away”, then go for it. Play with fire and get burned.
There is a lot of truth within this short statement. I have been a preacher of being a refined, honest man when it comes to meeting women. Well, last weekend for the sake of experimenting, i decided to become uncivilized and follow the instincts of my inner beast. This means groping, speaking without a filter, ect. From this, I can conclude that women tend to abide by their innate animal instincts too, which is to be choosen by an alpha male. So with this, i leave you with a reiteration of my last post, rape her into submission.
Not sure about the rest of you deadbeats, but I constantly worry that a ‘hook up’ will cry rape. For this very reason I check myself. One of my boys was basically extorted by a woman who he had a ONS with claiming she now changed her mind and was going to authorities for a rape charge.
We need our own AF Armchair Attorney for this one, but I’d have a feeling most states would side with a female in the legal system in the event of drunk sex with a stranger turning into rape.
Yup you’re the desperate guy while she’s boning someone else. U messed up when u asked her for a relationship. U shoul’ve been boning till she’s begging u to be with her. Now u got rejected and u want her more than ever. Rejection sucks brotha.
^Agreed. Buyers remorse =/= rape.
If u want a chance, u gotta stop being the sensitive beta that u are. U better crank up alpha mode and take control. These types of b!tches eat that sh!t up.
Reminds me of my friend from college, who is incidentally also Indian. He had this weird relationship with this girl, but they never hooked up. They would literally lay in the same bed for the whole night, and the girl would always say things like “I like how you are so sincere… I would never be able to do this with some other guy without him taking advantage of me, blah bla blah”, sometimes in the presence of me and other people. The rest of us would be like, wtf is going on? Fortunately, my friend eventually became no longer a pussy, and he got a real girlfriend later.
Voice of a reason