If a girl is drunk and she consentually has sex with you that night. If the next morning comes along and she decides it was a mistake, she can claim rape. I have a friend that went through such a situation. He got a text at 3:00 in the morning by two girls to come over (the text included a pic in which they were in lingerie). He went over there and i guess they changed their minds and only wanted to cuddle. My boy wasnt having it and he pushed the issue not by actually raping them but by saying sweet nothings and caressing them ect. One of the girls caved and they did their thing. The next morning her bf calls her and axed her what happened. She claims rape. Even with the text and picture, my boy got a year of probation. Let this be a lesson.
That’s why I (used to) secretly film all my encounters then put them online. That way the whole world could see everything was on the up-and-up.
haha - I knew i saw some cfa books on the side of one vid when i went through a BBW phase. Didnt you and your dog tag team some poor working girl too?
I have a thing for amatuer stuff.
And even if you’re not found guilty, you’ll certainly be embarassed by the charges, and might have to spend a lot of time and money in court.
LMFAO at all this “alpha” and “beta” bifurcation. You guys sound like you’re in high school.
OP: don’t play games. You are not going to manipulate her into bed, and even if you did the work/reward relationship is low. Unless you actually want to be friends with her, you have no reason to hang with her again. If you want to be friends, she eventually may come around and you can take it from there. However, if she is talking to you about other relationships she is having it doesn’t look good.
^In order to be fair, I was good friends with a girl when I was in the Marines. I wanted more, and she knew it. But she didn’t want that, at least not from me. (We never did the drunk make-out thing, however.) But we had a lot in common, and became pretty good friends (even though I wanted to bang her and she knew it).
Eventually, I wore down her defenses and we started dating. Then things turned sour. Then we split up and haven’t hardly spoken since.
Point is, I think you CAN go from being “friends-but-I-want-more” to being “more than friends”. Difference is, this girl wasn’t damaged like Isildurr’s girl. She was an egomaniacal self-centered btch, but not damaged.
EDIT - another thing to point out–we were pretty good friends before we became “more than friends”. (We were just a really bad couple.) If you can legitimately do the “friends” thing, you’ve probably got a shot. But you have to have a legitimate interest in having a true friendship with her.
So are u never supposed to sleep with a drunk chick for fear that she might cry rape?
Its permissible only if you film it and post it on this forum.
You can, just don’t do it at your place and don’t use your real name (unless she too drunk to remember either).
+1
Also, isildurr shes banging someone else on the side…i know right now you dont care but if you happen to start dating you will start to care that she was banging someone while you were “courting” her. You need to hedge this feeling by banging someone on the side right now too. This has the added benefit that maybe you’ll forget about this chick with the baggage…seems like a lot to handle.
And post the pics or she has an adams apple and a peni*s.
the guy in whatsyourgovt likely only got convicted because the other girl was there.
There were loads of stories in the news in the UK that the odds of a conviction are still very much in the guy’s favour and cases rarely make it to court.
You guys are shady!
This is evolution at it’s best, or the contempoary version of such. You see, we wouldnt need to develop such methods if women understood what they wanted. Instead, your little irrational brains react to a situation like a little dog to two people calling it at once. You become indecesive and instead of being honest with yourself, and others, you lie to cover up the ugliness that lies within you. Admittedly, I am generalizing and such description doesnt to apply to most females on this forum, but i digress.
You sound very bitter. Do you trully think that way about half of the world’s population? You might have had some bad experience in the past, but common…
^ I don’t know about the “ugliness within you” part, but I would feel a lot more comfortable knowing that she doesn’t know my name or where I live. Then there’s approximately zero chance of a false rape allegation,whether it be “I was too drunk to say no” or “buyer’s remorse” or “I didn’t really want to but I did it anyway” or what have you.
And women do send a lot of mixed signals.
(BTW–this is entirely hypothetical. I’m married with two kids now. I’m trying to remember from a past life. Sigh…)
I interact with a lot of lawyers, it rubs off.
Judgements aside, I do believe that women in general are brought up to be conflicted mentally and emotionally. People have evolved to have sex. Men want to bang as many women as possible as often as possible. Women want to be banged by the strongest, smartest and fittest male possible. The difference is that men are honest about their intentions, and are thus viewed as shallow or amoral by some. Women, on the other hand, are taught to be innocent and pristine; virginity or having few male sex partners are seen as praiseworthy conditions in western society. If a woman easily gives in to sexual advances, she is labelled a “slut”. It is no wonder that so many women are confused or dishonest with themselves given the conflicting pressures of instinct and societal conditioning.
My outlook is 100% contingent on the author im reading or the music im listening to so perhaps vivaldi is manifesting itself into the personality you read today. Having said this, I have had some very good relationships with amazing women who are intelligent and beauts but they are the exception, not the rule. To answer your question, yes, I find the vast majority of women i meet filled with a gaping void (enjoy gentlement) when it comes to any sense of direction. To address your second statement, i have yet to have any bad experience as it relates to the subject, but I have witnessed a few first hand and I am one to learn from the mistakes of others and thus, this shaped my bleak outlook.