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did you read anything at all? all this can get me laid,it will not make her trust me.
there isn’t really a one size fit all you know.i am a dick generally,that’s now a huge problem because as i said the other guy gives her some serenity i cannot.
it’s a clusterfuck i doubt i have the stomach for.lets see…
^ you’re fcking stupid son!
perhaps,yes.
what i don’t get is when someone’s having trouble or been through a lot my overriding impulse is to help,not run.
if someone creates problem’s in their own heads then i have very little patience.
how you think that guy’s advice is good is beyond me?
I think she probably isn’t into you because you can’t type for shit.
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let me simplify this.
i am into her,she is into me. she cannot let herself feel anything for someone because the last time she did it she got burned terribly.i mean it cant get worse than someone telling you,you deserved to get raped.
now there is someone else who gives her emotional calm,he’s a nice guy,tries too hard.if i had to put it in america,he’s “beta”.she feels nothing for him,but the peace she has with him she values too much now obviously.
you do not want to walk away.what is your plan?
Well, good luck. I look forward to hearing how it goes.
If she needs that peace and you are typically a dick, what makes you think a relationship will workout? I understand your situation and i respect that you’re not just going in for a one night stand. This may be to much speculation, but one can only postulate that once (if) you do have sex with her, you might find that the intercourse was all you wanted and lose interest. Nevertheless, I’m rooting for you and hope you can make it work.
She needs to deal with her drinking issues and needs some time to heal over her past. To OP, the best thing you could do to her is leave her alone for sometime, if she needs you she get find you while sober.
All of this could’ve been prevented if she didn’t have an absentee father. Look after your kids folks… especially the princesses.
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i cannot leave her.i work with her.i like my job too much to quit.
you know,if i was 28 or something and i was in this situation i would’ve kept it completely platonic. At 23 i figure i have time on my side hopefully.
i think i’ll be going down the friend route,if i push harder for anything else she will pull away…it’s what she wants.
Keep options open,if another decent chick comes along then great else i don’t know…head to new york to see the hype.
thanks,im actually really wary but i think it’s the best decision
Didn’t she very clearly tell you to move on?
This is your co worker? Aaaaahhh… in that case, forget about pursuing her… it is probably not a good idea to introduce this sort of drama into the work place. Even if you do enter into a relationship, she seems unstable and might create problems if your relationship does not go well.
So you’re telling us that if Brad Pit came along she would complain to him about her life and wouldn’t be dying to be with him.
This girl must be something for you to be obsessed when shes your co-worker and is effing another dude…just one night her and remain her friend and you won’t have your dilemma anymore.
I echo the co-worker issue. If things go south, now it’s linked to personal and work. too much risk. just run.
End Thread. This is just dispicable! AF needs a filter against L1 Candidates who watch Lifetime movies.
GTF Off Our Forum Isildurr!
I’ll send you a Celine Dion CD if it will make you feel better, Isildurr.
And you really ought to change your screen name. Maybe pick something from Steel Magnolias.
I almost thew up my lunch from that thai cart on water street by laughing when I read it’s his coworker.
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Note: The video is Marvin’s Room by Drake
edit, nm.