ZOG Sports. You’ll find a ton of single guys playing kickball, softball, etc…
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Thanks!
See you around 
What are normal activities for guys?
i mean, even if i want to do baseball or join other sports teams, they are RARELY co-ed - meaning, i will only be meeting other women (or lesbians), not necessarily kicking soccer with guys!
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In NYC, the summer social soccer leagues are required to have at least a couple of girls per team.
Shall i move to NYC?
i don’t know any co-ed sport teams here. But even if there are, if they are serious about the sports they may not like to play with girls anyway or they may not like sporty girls?
i don’t know… generally speaking sports are not a great way to meet potential partners.
^ it may not be.
but you’re still meeting new people.they’ll have friends and so on etc etc.Increases your chances no?
Agree. If you are not too desperate , meeting people is fun and increases your chance too. I see that when we don’t expect too much, things seem to go much more smoother and we don’t get disappointed, maybe. One of my colleagues met her husband at a French class :)). I don’t think couples often go study together :)) You can try it out :)).
Based on what i read about you, you’re kind and caring, like to cook, make a strong effort towards looking good and youthful, and have a successful career. If you’re even quasi attractive, just make an effort to be a little more outgoing and you’ll be wifed up in no time. As for activities, any sports but I would recommend taking a martial arts class. You’ll find dedicated, respectful people there.
So basic rule. If you want to meet more men/women, go to where the men/women congregate. And if it’s a place where there are few other women/men, your chances are even better.
Example: non-unisex restrooms. Exceptions: birthing classes.
It’s easier to approach women online than in real life - what this means is that all girls get far more messages than they would get approaches in real life. If you’re a guy who is willing to put in the time commitment and use a scattergun approach, you can get your fair share of dates. But you probably won’t connect with the ones you really want to connect with, partly because you don’t even know for sure which ones they are (and if they are obviously desirable from their profile, it will be a huge challenge to stand out against the dozens of other messages they received that day). Meanwhile, most girls are spoilt for choice on a dating website, but most of the messages will be from guys who are using that scattergun approach - i.e., they don’t really have a high interest level.
I’ve met many women through online dating but I can’t say that I’ve met anyone I was truly interested in. That has only happened in real life.
my coworker has been doing zog sports/nysca(sp) for 2 years, he plays volleyball and kickball. he says he gets dates regularly
Concur.
Want to start the “hate running and soccer” club?
I played Volleyball in Zog Sports. Definitely not a competive league, even at highest level of competition
Analyst Forum team joining ZOG Carefree Kickball? LOL
how were the ladies?
The French class idea is actually good because i truly want to learn French!
I am not desperate actually, i am still desirable, haha, but thanks for making those observations about me 
If i do need to expand my network and meet single men i may go online and try it out as well, because honestly i don’t think it’s that bad and there aren’t that many “normal” ways to meet other singles in teh city.
I have asked for normal activities for guys and so far all i got was volleyball and french class…
For Volleyball make sure to go to competitive games only